username5804606
Badges: 3
Rep:
?
#1
Report Thread starter 1 month ago
#1
I’m really confused atm. I’ve always been attracted to men. But I can only seem to masturbate to the thought of girls. When I try and do it to men I can but it just doesn’t feel the same? However when I see a girl in public I have no sexual desire or emotional connection like I do with men? So why does having sex with woman sound more pleasurable?
0
reply
Anonymous #1
#2
Report 1 month ago
#2
(Original post by username5804606)
I’m really confused atm. I’ve always been attracted to men. But I can only seem to masturbate to the thought of girls. When I try and do it to men I can but it just doesn’t feel the same? However when I see a girl in public I have no sexual desire or emotional connection like I do with men? So why does having sex with woman sound more pleasurable?
other than saying you try both, sexually and going on dates with them, if you’re a woman maybe you should try watching or consuming porn made specifically for women, or look further into your attraction to each. though sexuality is a spectrum of course and nothing is immutable. not very useful i know but i wouldn’t panic too much right now, just enjoy what you enjoy until you become more experienced i suppose. sorry if this is t that useful but good luck!
0
reply
Anonymous #2
#3
Report 1 month ago
#3
It's totally ok to be confused and to question your sexuality. Just remember that there's no need to rush and that it's better to take your time with these things. Fantasies are just fantasies so, since you haven't experienced attraction to a woman in real life, it might mean nothing. But don't rule it out. There are loads of useful videos on youtube that can help you figure out your sexuality. Like they can give you signs you might be bi/lesbian or things to think about. I hope you figure it out eventually
0
reply
X

Quick Reply

Attached files
Write a reply...
Reply
new posts
Back
to top
Latest
My Feed

See more of what you like on
The Student Room

You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

Personalise

What support do you need with your UCAS application?

I need help researching unis (5)
8.93%
I need help researching courses (5)
8.93%
I need help with filling out the application form (3)
5.36%
I need help with my personal statement (24)
42.86%
I need help with understanding how to make my application stand out (14)
25%
I need help with something else (let us know in the thread!) (2)
3.57%
I'm feeling confident about my application and don't need any help at the moment (3)
5.36%

Watched Threads

View All