Not ready to leave someone

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I want to leave my bf because we’re in an unhealthy relationship. And he’s now got slot of traits I find attractive. But I’m not ready to aswell. I feel like In a year or less ill be ready. He knows it’s unhealthy too and we’re struggling to get healthy.

Am I a fool?
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CaptainDuckie
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a break does sound feasible.

You can compare which you prefer. When with him or when away from him, there’s a lot of flexibility in deciding.

You’re definitely not a fool for prioritising a healthy mind, it’s the appropriate and smart course of action.

If that doesn’t work though - you could always just both talk about ending it. I would say that’s a reasonable final straw. But make sure it’s sooner rather than later.
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Surnia
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Why would you stay in an unhealthy relationship? What is stopping you leaving?

Either sit down, discuss the issues and decide if they can be sorted in a reasonable time frame, or end it and move on. No point hanging around being miserable for a year.
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