I need some serious advice?Watch
Thing is, I'm not ready. Financially, mentally, career wise. Plus, I've never really seen anything good come out of a commitment like this. It's always been downhill after these types of commitments. She's landed an amazing opportunity straight after graduating and I'm still searching.
I don't understand what to do. I've spoken to her but she's not ready to stay with me until then. Is there any point me trying to get us back together or should I leave her alone?
Personally I see it this way. If she isn't respecting that you aren't ready for that kind of commitment then there isn't really any trust and understanding. And it would fall apart regardless. So just have the both of you go separate ways. And don't give up on commitment! My parents have been together nearly 20 years and haven't gotten married. So marriage isn't needed to have a happy relationship.
Leave her. Marriage should be a celebration of a couple with both members being not only ready for it but happy about it. I think what she does is a huge red flag and if she keeps this attitude there is no point in you trying to be with her. What does she need from marriage? That you are commited and dont do anything with other girls? Well i am pretty sure that is already the case