Why are so many guys weak and crying these daysWatch
Although it would be a sign of weakness to keep crying and not move on in a positive way from such a bereavement a year after it happened.
That's the crying.
For the whinging there's always been a proportion of people with a negative outlook. I don't think that has changed over the years.
Leave them to their negativity. Whilst you stay positive and optimistic. Because positivity is more realistic in the UK in 2021. Because our lives in this country today are overwhelmingly neutral to good. There's not that many bad things that happen to us and they don't last long - in general on average.
Just like how you see much more masculine woman around.