This guy keeps bombarding me with messages and gifts

Watch
Anonymous #1
#1
Report Thread starter 1 month ago
#1
There is this guy who I'm friends with but I know he fancies me he keeps sending me loads of messages even when I'm trying to sleep, the thing is I like a different guy and I'm going on a date with him tonight and I told the other guy and he was devastated, the other problem he keeps sending me gifts like expensive ones and I told him I can't accept it I don't want them, I had politely said thanks but please don't send me anymore and he got very upset at that too, one of my friends said I'm being mean but I can't help who I like, can someone give me advice on what to do?
0
reply
CaptainDuckie
Badges: 22
Rep:
?
#2
Report 1 month ago
#2
It’s expected to be upset when the person you like doesn’t like you back, sounds like his own problem to deal with tbh.
0
reply
username5778314
Badges: 12
Rep:
?
#3
Report 1 month ago
#3
If he doesn't take your polite hints, block him so he can't message you.
1
reply
Anonymous #2
#4
Report 1 month ago
#4
(Original post by Anonymous)
There is this guy who I'm friends with but I know he fancies me he keeps sending me loads of messages even when I'm trying to sleep, the thing is I like a different guy and I'm going on a date with him tonight and I told the other guy and he was devastated, the other problem he keeps sending me gifts like expensive ones and I told him I can't accept it I don't want them, I had politely said thanks but please don't send me anymore and he got very upset at that too, one of my friends said I'm being mean but I can't help who I like, can someone give me advice on what to do?
😭💀😂😂lmaooooo

What a simp
0
reply
HaydenFordz
Badges: 17
Rep:
?
#5
Report 1 month ago
#5
(Original post by Anonymous)
😭💀😂😂lmaooooo

What a simp
So woke :rolleyes:
0
reply
Moonlight Rain
Badges: 21
Rep:
?
#6
Report 1 month ago
#6
I wouldn't say no to gifts but that's just me. But this guy is doing it with the intention of getting something from you which isn't good and you have every right to be pissed off. How does he even know your address? Tell him one last time that you will block him if he continues and if he does, block him.
1
reply
londonmyst
Badges: 18
Rep:
?
#7
Report 1 month ago
#7
You've been honest & very clear with him that you have no romantic interest in him and won't accept any of his gifts.

If he's a reasonable guy, he'll accept your decision and move on.
But if he is unreasonable, tries pestering you or targets you with any insults/threats- block and report him.
To the site mods and the police if that is what your gut instinct or common sense tells you to do.
Good luck with your date tonight!
0
reply
Zarek
Badges: 21
Rep:
?
#8
Report 1 month ago
#8
At some point you have to speak very harshly and tell you don’t want him to contact you at all. It’s being cruel to be kind when he won’t give up hope. The new relationship may also influence him to back off
0
reply
xxx0xxxo
Badges: 21
Rep:
?
#9
Report 1 month ago
#9
I'll dm you my delivery address if you don't want the gifts xo
2
reply
X

Quick Reply

Attached files
Write a reply...
Reply
new posts
Back
to top
Latest
My Feed

See more of what you like on
The Student Room

You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

Personalise

Feeling behind at school/college? What is the best thing your teachers could to help you catch up?

Extra compulsory independent learning activities (eg, homework tasks) (14)
6.45%
Run extra compulsory lessons or workshops (34)
15.67%
Focus on making the normal lesson time with them as high quality as possible (36)
16.59%
Focus on making the normal learning resources as high quality/accessible as possible (33)
15.21%
Provide extra optional activities, lessons and/or workshops (58)
26.73%
Assess students, decide who needs extra support and focus on these students (42)
19.35%

Watched Threads

View All