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I cannot get over him
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I need to see the backstory. Also, how old are you?
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I cannot get over him

If you just broke up with your ex; the natural feeling is this. It all takes time to heal up.
Once you understand that there’s more to life than a relationship, you will move on faster.

You could talk to someone else in the meantime to make the process quicker, that’s only when you’re ready.
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I need to see the backstory. Also, how old are you?
We’re both 21, the problem was we both want different things in life. He moved away to study and we tried to make it work, the time difference and everything, instead we were talking to eachother all the time, hardly sleeping and it was spoiling our actual daily lives. We actually argued which we never did before and he said maybe we should just call it a day. I was absolutely shattered, he was crying but I knew he was right, I just didn’t want to hear it. Since then I’ve blocked him, deleted every memory of him. Everything I look at reminds me of him though, he’s constantly on my mind. It’s been months and I feel like it’s getting worse rather than better.
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(Original post by CaptainDuckie)
If you just broke up with your ex; the natural feeling is this. It all takes time to heal up.
Once you understand that there’s more to life than a relationship, you will move on faster.

You could talk to someone else in the meantime to make the process quicker, that’s only when you’re ready.
I know there’s more to life but I just have no feeling of motivation left in me. I just want to lie in bed and cry all day, I never thought I’d be that kind of girl, who loses it over a guy.
I don’t know who to talk to, besides I think everyone thinks I’m being pathetic.
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They say that time's supposed to heal ya,
But I ain't done much healing
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I know there’s more to life but I just have no feeling of motivation left in me. I just want to lie in bed and cry all day, I never thought I’d be that kind of girl, who loses it over a guy.
I don’t know who to talk to, besides I think everyone thinks I’m being pathetic.

yeah, it’s the usual feeling of heart break.

It’s not an abnormal response at all. Just always remember the reasons why you broke up and you’ll forgot about the whole thing.
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yeah, it’s the usual feeling of heart break.

It’s not an abnormal response at all. Just always remember the reasons why you broke up and you’ll forgot about the whole thing.
Honestly I keep reminding myself it was for the best but he was my first love.
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Honestly I keep reminding myself it was for the best but he was my first love.

Yes. But it was for the best

Just allow yourself to feel sad for the moment. I think you might just be missing him.

You tried making it work but it just couldn’t work out. You tried your best that’s all that matters.

Do you have any motivations in life? What about family and friends?
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Yes. But it was for the best

Just allow yourself to feel sad for the moment. I think you might just be missing him.

You tried making it work but it just couldn’t work out. You tried your best that’s all that matters.

Do you have any motivations in life? What about family and friends?
Of course I miss him, but I know it was for the best.

I have my family, friends and colleagues, but I feel so alone despite everyone around me.

I also have a lot to focus on but I can't concentrate on anything.
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I cannot get over him
With time you will be able to find someone else time is the best cure for problems of this nature
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You got exes, OP?
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Is his loving all you can think about?

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You got exes, OP?
Yes an ex, I thought was fairly obvious considering I can’t get over him
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Is his loving all you can think about?

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His loving and leaving..

.. I think I needed a bit of Kylie
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Of course I miss him, but I know it was for the best.

I have my family, friends and colleagues, but I feel so alone despite everyone around me.

I also have a lot to focus on but I can't concentrate on anything.
Maybe have one last shag with him then cut contact
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Maybe have one last shag with him then cut contact
That is an awful idea.
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Maybe have one last shag with him then cut contact
Charming.. if only it were that simple
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Charming.. if only it were that simple
theres people you can talk to on here that will understand and try to help you
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theres people you can talk to on here that will understand and try to help you
Like who?
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