So after
@Lucifer323 made a comment about me being in my 30s stuck on TSR on a saturday night .....I decided to take an after hours stroll.
I live a 15 minute walk from the town centre so it really is no biggy.
I could see lots of people enjoying the night out etc ...and lots of attractive girls about the place. In the back of my mind I was kinda hoping i'd get approached or something but tbh it was like I was invisible. I was even getting negative vibes off some girls I made eye contact with... and girls I checked out were not giving me great vibes either... they really didn't seem to even care.
after standing around for like an hour ... the only person who had approached me was a dude, and he just wanted to make general chit chat.
eventually I start to get cold, and started thinking of going home. Then I saw this girl who was really my type and thought **** it, just approach her. So I did.
but the initial reaction was not so great. I was borderline going to walk away after the bland lifeless replies she was giving but thought I'm here now ... I might as well work on my convo skills.
Then something strange started happening, within about 30 seconds she started to become attracted, I could see her get more and more attracted and she then said that she liked my voice. she then asked if i wanted her number and called herself from my phone.
I was pretty pleased with myself at this point but knowing how flaky girls can be ... I wanted more!
Yes we had only been talking two minutes... but playing things safe is often the most unsafe thing you can do when it comes to girls. Statistically I'm never going to see this girl again .. so I point blank asked her for a kiss. At first she looked like she didn't want to do it..., then for some reason she came round and we started making out....
after the kiss she seemed to kinda lose interest though. she even started borderline hitting on another guy who came past and gave her a bottle. the convo after was awkward as well. I am not convinced she is going be receptive to my call...
should I even bother contacting her?
note, this is the first time i have cold approached approached and actually got a makeout from it. the times i'd made out with girls before it was them who approached me....
this woman looked about 24.... so significant age gap... although most likely she didn't notice it