influencer friend unfollowed me on insta and blocked me on snapchat

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we used to talk quite a bit but due to my worsening depression/mental breakdown i haven't been giving him much attention lately. mainly bc i just wanted avoid any sexual stuff (he would turn a lot of our convos sexual, and i just wasn't in the mood for that). about a week ago i mentioned my personal issues to him (re depression/mental breakdown) which i now know was a huge mistake and probably contributed to him unfollowing/blocking me.

now i'm really down and i can't get over losing his online friendship (he's american which is why it was as strictly online). i'm not gonna lie, it was incredibly flattering, i mean getting attention from someone like him. i feel worthless af now.

i want to message him on insta, bc i want to know why he suddenly wants me completely out of his online. will i look really desperate if i message him?
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James Charles?
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James Charles?
nah, its not someone with that big of a following. besides i really don't think i would get a long with a guy like james tbh, lol.
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we used to talk quite a bit but due to my worsening depression/mental breakdown i haven't been giving him much attention lately. mainly bc i just wanted avoid any sexual stuff (he would turn a lot of our convos sexual, and i just wasn't in the mood for that). about a week ago i mentioned my personal issues to him (re depression/mental breakdown) which i now know was a huge mistake and probably contributed to him unfollowing/blocking me.

now i'm really down and i can't get over losing his online friendship (he's american which is why it was as strictly online). i'm not gonna lie, it was incredibly flattering, i mean getting attention from someone like him. i feel worthless af now.

i want to message him on insta, bc i want to know why he suddenly wants me completely out of his online. will i look really desperate if i message him?
He doesn't really care about you.. Just leave it.. Find someone else
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nah, its not someone with that big of a following. besides i really don't think i would get a long with a guy like james tbh, lol.
Benji? Tony?
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He doesn't really care about you.. Just leave it.. Find someone else
i really enjoyed chatting to him tho. most people can't really capture my interest for more than a week or so, he was different
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Benji? Tony?
his identity doesn't matter, that's not the point of my thread
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Be flattered that your personality, conversation, looks or possibly all three are so amazing that an instagram influencer was your follower.
A follower who did not charge you for the chats or follow.
Many of the models my best friend works alongside invest a lot of money and time every month into encouraging social media influencers to follow them, chat or share helpful contacts/invites to relevant social & networking events.
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Be flattered that your personality, conversation, looks or possibly all three are so amazing that an instagram influencer was your follower.
A follower who did not charge you for the chats or follow.
Many of the models my best friend works alongside invest a lot of money and time every month into encouraging social media influencers to follow them, chat or share helpful contacts/invites to relevant social & networking events.
well, apparently not interesting/good looking enough
i know it's 'only' social media and not everyone gets it but.. yeah
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He probably just removed you because of the lack of interaction.

If you messaged him, yes you will look desperate. So if that’s your concerns then don’t. ALSO I don’t think he “blocked” you on snapchat. His account might just be set on allow messages from friends only. He just un-added you.

You can still see his story but just not be able to message him, for example.

Hope this helped.
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He probably just removed you because of the lack of interaction.

If you messaged him, yes you will look desperate. So if that’s your concerns then don’t. ALSO I don’t think he “blocked” you on snapchat. His account might just be set on allow messages from friends only. He just un-added you.

You can still see his story but just not be able to message him, for example.

Hope this helped.
damn : /
i'm so sick of everything i wish i was ****ing dead 🙄
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damn : /
i'm so sick of everything i wish i was ****ing dead 🙄


What’s wrong? Because he un added you?
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(Original post by Ciel.)
we used to talk quite a bit but due to my worsening depression/mental breakdown i haven't been giving him much attention lately. mainly bc i just wanted avoid any sexual stuff (he would turn a lot of our convos sexual, and i just wasn't in the mood for that). about a week ago i mentioned my personal issues to him (re depression/mental breakdown) which i now know was a huge mistake and probably contributed to him unfollowing/blocking me.

now i'm really down and i can't get over losing his online friendship (he's american which is why it was as strictly online). i'm not gonna lie, it was incredibly flattering, i mean getting attention from someone like him. i feel worthless af now.

i want to message him on insta, bc i want to know why he suddenly wants me completely out of his online. will i look really desperate if i message him?
He wanted sexual content and you didn't
It was never going to be compatible and he wasn't compared to compromise
It was probably for the best op
Move on
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Its

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What’s wrong? Because he un added you?
my whole life feels like i mistake. i always screw up

(Original post by WazzWazz98)
He wanted sexual content and you didn't
It was never going to be compatible and he wasn't compared to compromise
It was probably for the best op
Move on
that's not correct. i just needed a break from it
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Its

Over
well i don't want it to be
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i always screw up

Don’t cry, it’ll be alright. People move on, some people stay.

It’s life
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my whole life feels like i mistake. i always screw up


that's not correct. i just needed a break from it
If they can't respect or understand that then they are self centred and not interested
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Don’t cry, it’ll be alright. People move on, some people stay.

It’s life
i hate life, lol. so pointless
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If they can't respect or understand that then they are self centred and not interested
i just can't accept his decision, it seems so random
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i just can't accept his decision, it seems so random

You’ll get over it. I bet in like 7 days youll forget all about it
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You’ll get over it. I bet in like 7 days youll forget all about it
no, i won't
i feel like deleting my social media tbh
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