Men: have you fallen in love with someone for just their personality?

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You met someone online (you don't know what they look like) and fell in love and when you did meet them in person, you were pleasantly surprised at how attractive they really were?
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Once upon a time, yes.
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Never. I am the kind of guy to search for "how to become Mr. Steel Ur Grill" after a SENSUAL convo.
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Once upon a time, yes.
Aww, what happened? Would you do it again?
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Aww, what happened? Would you do it again?
Once when I was 17. We both liked each other and spent a lot of time on calls, messages etc. but we were in different countries and she was going to university in the U.S and I was staying in the U.K. Didn't work out.

Almost happened again a few years later with someone else - but she broke things off when she found out I'm almost 15 years younger than her.

I've never allowed it to happen again since.
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Once when I was 17. We both liked each other and spent a lot of time on calls, messages etc. but we were in different countries and she was going to university in the U.S and I was staying in the U.K. Didn't work out.

Almost happened again a few years later with someone else - but she broke things off when she found out I'm almost 15 years younger than her.

I've never allowed it to happen again since.
Aww, that's sweet.
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i've been attracted to some people's personality online.

didn't fall in love with them though
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Not fell in love, but I liked their personality because they kind of match the criteria I look for in a girl.
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Once upon a time, yes.
Obviously with a Muslim girl.
It can't be anything else brother.
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Obviously with a Muslim girl.
It can't be anything else brother.
The first one was a Catholic. The second was an ex-Muslim.
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Yes. She was at first really nice and kind and made me feel accepted and understood. That hadn't happened for a long time in my life so I developed feelings for her. Things changed later on but initially ... yeah.
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The first one was a Catholic. The second was an ex-Muslim.
Brother you know well as I do that your chances are much better and your relationships would be great if you stick only with Muslim girls. Everyone knows this!
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Brother you know well as I do that your chances are much better and your relationships would be great if you stick only with Muslim girls. Everyone knows this!
I tried. She turned out to be a psycho and I had to get a divorce. It cost me over £90K+ in legal fees. She's now living in Scotland courtesy of your taxpayers money because her parents might kill her if she returns to her country (note: she visits her parents on holiday each year!). :lol: Welcome to the British legal system.
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I tried. She turned out to be a psycho and I had to get a divorce. It cost me over £90K+ in legal fees. She's now living in Scotland courtesy of your taxpayers money because her parents might kill her if she returns to her country (note: she visits her parents on holiday each year!). :lol: Welcome to the British legal system.
:eek:😬
This is why you should only get a nikkah done and not legally marry. This idea scares the crap out of me.
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nah not in love, but interested to get to know more yeah. Physical attraction is needed for me because otherwise I feel like my efforts to keep myself looking good and healthy don't matter and I want someone else to share my outlook.
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:eek:😬
This is why you should only get a nikkah done and not legally marry. This idea scares the crap out of me.
Yes, I learnt my lesson. I only did Nikkah in future in case it didn't work out. In hindsight, it was the best decision I ever made.
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I tried. She turned out to be a psycho and I had to get a divorce. It cost me over £90K+ in legal fees. She's now living in Scotland courtesy of your taxpayers money because her parents might kill her if she returns to her country (note: she visits her parents on holiday each year!). :lol: Welcome to the British legal system.
May I guess the country of her origin? I think I guessed it right...

£90k to get rid off someone who didn't want to live with?
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May I guess the country of her origin? I think I guessed it right...

£90k to get rid off someone who didn't want to live with?
Pakistan. Lesson learnt.
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You met someone online (you don't know what they look like) and fell in love and when you did meet them in person, you were pleasantly surprised at how attractive they really were?
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