Caught my girlfriend cheating on my with my best friendWatch
I met my girlfriend at the beginning of Uni as we were in the same 6 person group. She was stunning and the moment I first laid eyes on her i just couldn’t help but imagine myself with her.
A lot of guys were into her and I got the gyst that she loved attention. Looking back, maybe that should of been a red flag.
Anyway, at the time I was pretty broke and had a bunch of insecurities but she gave me the fuel and desire to change that. And change that I did. Within 3 months of my dropshipping business with a friend of mine, we were on track to break low 5 figures in profit.
This may not sound like much but to me at the time it was a lot and I had this superiority complex and massive confidence boost, it was like I was a new person. Anyway, I started flirting with her and shooting my shot and to my surprise she paid a lot of attention to me and at the time, I thought that was her giving me a cue to ask her out. And I did.
Fast foreword a year, we have been together and happily coinciding with one another. That is until one day I was about to knock on her door at about 11:00pm one night as I had forgot my laptop in her room. And that’s when I had her roommate stop me doing so but putting a hand on my shoulder.
“Bro, she’s not worth it”. He shook his head. My heart dropped, I knew what that meant. I didn’t even have to ask him further as I heard her laughing with my bloody BEST FREIND! The shock was immediate. For a while my memory was a little fuzzy and there was some white noise.
He invited me to come and get a drink. We talked. I asked him who to double check what I already knew and he just confirmed it.
I’m still with her. I haven’t told her about any of what had transpired with me that night. She doesn’t know I know, and I like the fact that ultimately, I have control in a weird way. I have control over how this ends. And I want to know, from you guys, how I should proceed. Should I just flat out tell her I know what happened?
Should I just leave her completely and ignore her without saying a word to her and maybe she’ll confess.
Should I confront my so called best friend?