I'm started to get really annoyed with women on dating apps...
1. So recently I was talking to this one girl, we had a lot of shared interests, exchanged tons of messages. I told her I was interested, she said she would find the time, and we continues to chat. A few days go by and no more messages in response, I explained how I guess there is no interest, she says sorry she was really busy, and we have a chat again, lots more message exchanged.
Next day she messages me and we have another long chat, many many messages back and forth. I say how I'm interested again and asked if she is, and how I'd like to meet to actually get to know her better. She doesn't respond. I mention the next day how she obviously has no interest. She comes up with saying she missed the message and then says how she prefers chatting a lot more over text with people generally. We exchanged many many messages covering many topics and shared interests. Then she says she is probably too busy for dating and says good luck with your search (after I had said that to her).
Absolute ********. Obviously leading me on.
2. Another girl matches with me, starts chatting a lot, seems interested. We actually have a call on the first day of matching, and chat on the phone for like an hour, pretty friendly, she seems a little dense if I'm totally honest with you reading this, but fairly easy going conversation talking about all our interests and such. Says she would like to meet sometime for a walk and chat. Next day she un-matches me without a sound.
3. Another girl matches with me, says hi and I respond, days go by and nothing, I ask whats up as it was odd that she matched and never replied. She gets super defensive saying she has been really really busy. We continue to chat anyway and have quite a lot of fairly in depth conversations. Then bam she is gone, no more messages even though she is still matched.
4. Another woman matches with me, a fair bit older. We have a nice little chat, she says she is going on holiday for a bit and to remind her about meeting up sometime. I remind her and we have a little chat she says remind her in the morning. 3 times she says about reminding her about setting up a meeting. I say surely I shouldn't have to do that if you are interested and no response, which I expected because she is leading me the **** on.
5. There are more....
So I get the impression that there are tons of women on these apps who have no interest in actually getting to know someone at all. It's just a game to them. No respect. No honesty. Bad communication. They are not fit for a relationship.
I'm starting to get annoyed to the point I'm getting on my moral high horse. Most people are utter shambles of human beings. They just have no honesty whatsoever. I treat people like human beings, I tell them what's on my mind, why can't other people be like that. Especially when it comes to dating where you are getting to know someone who may even potentially become your partner. But no, you treat them like some fun game to play with.
Pathetic.