Is going to stripclub cheating?Watch
I guess so. But they’re literally paying to get a hard-on from another girl and potentially get all touchy feely. Just doesn’t sit right with me …
im not comfortable with it but cheating is when you acc do stuff right?
I'd be a bit worried and confused if my (hypothetical) partner wanted to go to a stripclub. Like we have sexiness at home, why do you need to go out for that?
If I was you, I would go to a strip club ( a male strip club if you're a girl) on the same day he goes and see if he's ok with that.
Sometimes you go to go the extra mile
When you're in a strip club, the girls will approach the guys and try and make conversation with them... some girls have very good interpersonal / conversational skills (or "game") while others don't and rely solely on their physical attractiveness to get the guys interest. What guys will probably find is that he'll prefer the company of some girls to others, so inevitably some will do very well, others won't. The idea is they want to offer a private dance, as that's how they make their money.
If you're worried about him actually copping off with a stripper, don't be! Most legit clubs would never offer this service as they would lose their license. In fact, they have a strict rule that guys are not allowed to touch the girls (a "friendly chat" with security awaits anyone who bends the rules). Moreover, the girls there generally see guys as nothing more than walking cash dispensers, so it's strictly business.
That said plenty of people have a very negative attitude towards the facts that: strip clubs exist, that they attract enough customers & workers to remain profitable and that they are allowed to do so by many local authorities & national governments.
Can’t lie, I don’t buy these replies.......
It’s clearly a violation. It’s a respectable reason to end your relationship.
And if it’s definitely not what you want. If he disagrees after talking to him, then you aren’t compatible.
For me, yes. However, I would clearly communicate this to any potential partner before getting into a relationship. Ambiguity sucks.