Is going to stripclub cheating?

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Is a boy going to stripclub cheating ?
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i think its a bit weird but ig its like live porn so unless you **** them or **** then no ?
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I guess so. But they’re literally paying to get a hard-on from another girl and potentially get all touchy feely. Just doesn’t sit right with me …
well to their partner it might be ok yk like theyve already talked about it
im not comfortable with it but cheating is when you acc do stuff right?
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Not unless you're having sex with the strippers.
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It's something your partner should probably run by you if going. It's entirely okay for it to be a line that you don't want him to cross.
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Seems borderline; something that you'd need to talk about with them. It would be reasonable to consider it cheating.

I'd be a bit worried and confused if my (hypothetical) partner wanted to go to a stripclub. Like we have sexiness at home, why do you need to go out for that?
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Is a girl going to a strip club cheating?
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Alone? Stage do? Work event?
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(Original post by ageshallnot)
Is a girl going to a strip club cheating?
if they **** then yh
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Would your partner be ok if you go to a strip club?
If I was you, I would go to a strip club ( a male strip club if you're a girl) on the same day he goes and see if he's ok with that.
Sometimes you go to go the extra mile :flutter:
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(Original post by Isabellablue3)
Is a boy going to stripclub cheating ?
I wouldn't say so... but I can kinda understand if girlfriends feel insecure about it. Personally, I think going to a strip club can be a good exercise for a guy... as it can give an idea of what a night out is like from a females perspective. I'll try and explain:-

When you're in a strip club, the girls will approach the guys and try and make conversation with them... some girls have very good interpersonal / conversational skills (or "game") while others don't and rely solely on their physical attractiveness to get the guys interest. What guys will probably find is that he'll prefer the company of some girls to others, so inevitably some will do very well, others won't. The idea is they want to offer a private dance, as that's how they make their money.

If you're worried about him actually copping off with a stripper, don't be! Most legit clubs would never offer this service as they would lose their license. In fact, they have a strict rule that guys are not allowed to touch the girls (a "friendly chat" with security awaits anyone who bends the rules). Moreover, the girls there generally see guys as nothing more than walking cash dispensers, so it's strictly business.
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(Original post by Isabellablue3)
Is a boy going to stripclub cheating ?
honestly i think most younger guys would only go to a stripclub for a laugh. i went to one on holiday once and was both underwhelmed and uncomfortable. it's nothing to worry about tbh
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No- merely going to a strip club is not cheating.

That said plenty of people have a very negative attitude towards the facts that: strip clubs exist, that they attract enough customers & workers to remain profitable and that they are allowed to do so by many local authorities & national governments.
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still enough to end a relationship, that’s for sure.
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(Original post by Isabellablue3)
But kissing and touching up someone is still cheating, no?
if its your bf and youre uncomfortable TELL HIM
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(Original post by Isabellablue3)
I love this. He’d hate it if I went. I’m gonna give him taste of his own medicine
Yes Yes Yes please take your friends with you and have fun!!!
Post it all over your socials and dress up nice too!
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Maybe not cheating but you are toeing if not crossing the line of reasonable boundaries if they don't know.
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(Original post by Isabellablue3)
But kissing and touching up someone is still cheating, no?


Can’t lie, I don’t buy these replies.......

It’s clearly a violation. It’s a respectable reason to end your relationship.

And if it’s definitely not what you want. If he disagrees after talking to him, then you aren’t compatible.
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(Original post by Isabellablue3)
But kissing and touching up someone is still cheating, no?
Pretty sure you're not normally supposed to touch the strippers, much less kiss them Then again I've never been to a stripclub nor do I imagine I ever will be so....
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It depends on the boundaries set by you and your partner.

For me, yes. However, I would clearly communicate this to any potential partner before getting into a relationship. Ambiguity sucks.
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