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How can I concentrate on keeping myself busy when all I can think about is my ex dumping me??? I've removed all of her from my phone contacts, social media, galleries. I can't move forward...
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Find a new hobby, talk to friends, focus on self-care. You’ve spent time focusing on another person and your relationship with them. Try focusing on yourself and doing things you enjoyed doing by yourself before your relationship.
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I can't move forward...
This might come across as harsh, but remember that if he wanted to be with you or text you he would have found a way. Don't cry over a boy who doesn't care.

If he wanted to, he would have x
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Definitely allow yourself to feel sad that she has dumped you for whatever reason. Give yourself plenty of time to heal.

Talk to family and friends or others who can give you some support. It all can help you keep distracted and allows you to not be all alone.


Take full responsibility for whatever reason she broke up with you. Learn from the mistakes and shape yourself to be a healthier person for your future partner.


Remember that there are plenty of other fish in the sea and it’s not entirely the end of the world. It will all seem like you can’t move on at first but, with time, you can do anything.

Good luck and have a great day.
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Try to focus on your future ambitions, all the positives in your life and doing the hobbies that you most enjoy.
Exes & all the relationships that failed are very valuable sources of life experience once you have moved on, both physically and emotionally.
Time, distance, a positive mentality and working towards the future- all these help efforts to move on from the past.
Good luck!
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How can I concentrate on keeping myself busy when all I can think about is my ex dumping me??? I've removed all of her from my phone contacts, social media, galleries. I can't move forward...
I think allow yourself time to feel what you're feeling, call someone or meet up with them and have a good cry about it, constantly trying to distract yourself isn't the move.
Once you've done that, make plans with friends, set someone personal goals that maybe you neglected while you were with her, or throw yourself back into your hobbies. If you journal or have any creative outlets, get back into those. Good luck x
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Anonymous #1
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Thank you for your messages everyone. She was my first and I never realised I was this attached to her emotionally.
I also didn't know that allowing myself to feel like this was even a thing. Been brought up to just ignore stuff like this and move on.

These messages was exactly what I needed. I'm going to focus on myself and start planning my days to be productive incrementally.
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