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Hi, I’m going to make this as short as I can -

So yesterday was my friends birthday and I forgot to wish her. I’m actually pretty close to her as well. I feel so bad and guilty about it.
So today I remembered it was her birthday so then I wished her today. I texted her this : “ Heyy!! I’m so sorry I forgot to wish you yesterday, so happy birthday!!”.
But then she replied with
“Oh your so fake, my birthday was yesterday. F you. Only [her other friends who wished her] said happy birthday to me”.
Now I texted her back but she’s not replying. I thought she was a decent person. I’ve been really good friends with her for 3 years. But I hope we don’t breakup because I forgot to text her.
Am I really at fault here ?
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You are human, forgetting a birthday is very easy to do, and the fact that you still went back and admitted you forgot is proof you arent in the wrong - theres a chance she was just waiting to pick on you, I do hope she wasnt however <3
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does she wish you happy bday
were you busy

we all make mistakes i mean i wished my friend happy bday on my other friends bday lmao
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Heaven forbid anyone have anything apart from her mind! Didn't you know, Earth is still turning only due to her?

You forgot her birthday. Then you remembered. If anybody's wrong here, it's her for overreacting.
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(Original post by hey hey yall)
does she wish you happy bday
were you busy

we all make mistakes i mean i wished my friend happy bday on my other friends bday lmao
Yea I was kinda busy yesterday. Also yea she does wish me happy bday.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Hi, I’m going to make this as short as I can -

So yesterday was my friends birthday and I forgot to wish her. I’m actually pretty close to her as well. I feel so bad and guilty about it.
So today I remembered it was her birthday so then I wished her today. I texted her this : “ Heyy!! I’m so sorry I forgot to wish you yesterday, so happy birthday!!”.
But then she replied with
“Oh your so fake, my birthday was yesterday. F you. Only [her other friends who wished her] said happy birthday to me”.
Now I texted her back but she’s not replying. I thought she was a decent person. I’ve been really good friends with her for 3 years. But I hope we don’t breakup because I forgot to text her.
Am I really at fault here ?
lool this happened to me and my friends too. My friend and I forgot my best friends birthday and a classmate told me and I felt so bad so we baked her a cake and took it to her house to apologise. My friend also forgot my birthday and I did feel upset because I have only 2 friends that I'm close to but she made it up by bringing my favourite sweets and chocolate and us hanging out. You're not fake for forgetting it's something that can happen to anyone.
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If I were you I will just text sth longer, doesn’t matter the contents, just to tell her how important she is! Or maybe bake her few cupcakes or buy little gifts. I believe she won’t break up with u just because you for got to wish her 1 day later. Maybe she just wants to know how much u care about her
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No, it happens - it was an honest mistake and you apologised. The world does not revolve around your friend. Honestly, do you really want to be friends with someone like this? Always feeling like you are walking on eggshells? Maybe this was a blessing in disguise.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Hi, I’m going to make this as short as I can -

So yesterday was my friends birthday and I forgot to wish her. I’m actually pretty close to her as well. I feel so bad and guilty about it.
So today I remembered it was her birthday so then I wished her today. I texted her this : “ Heyy!! I’m so sorry I forgot to wish you yesterday, so happy birthday!!”.
But then she replied with
“Oh your so fake, my birthday was yesterday. F you. Only [her other friends who wished her] said happy birthday to me”.
Now I texted her back but she’s not replying. I thought she was a decent person. I’ve been really good friends with her for 3 years. But I hope we don’t breakup because I forgot to text her.
Am I really at fault here ?
you made a mistake and admitted it. Maybe she is just a little upset and needs some time and space away from you. You've been friends for 3 years so hopefully this is just a small bump in the road, i'm sure she will forgive you, just give her some space and then then try get in contact with her again
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