is it too early to say it?

Watch
Anonymous #1
#1
Report Thread starter 1 month ago
#1
i started dating this new guy and its been 2 weeks and he just said he loves me,I was shocked cause I feel like its too early,is saying'' I love you'' too early considered a red flag?
0
reply
Anonymous #2
#2
Report 1 month ago
#2
news flash, he doesnt actually love you.
0
reply
Moonlight Rain
Badges: 21
Rep:
?
#3
Report 1 month ago
#3
I love you
0
reply
urlocalinmate
Badges: 19
Rep:
?
#4
Report 1 month ago
#4
It's not always a red flag. Maybe this guy doesn't know what true love is?
1
reply
JAckieee.chan
Badges: 21
Rep:
?
#5
Report 1 month ago
#5
maybe he actually loves you? two weeks is a good amount of time to know a person properly.
0
reply
Anonymous #1
#6
Report Thread starter 1 month ago
#6
(Original post by Anonymous)
news flash, he doesnt actually love you.
yess,thats what i am saying,i haven't replied to him yet cause I don't know what to say and I cant say it back too soon since I'm not sure if I love him yet
0
reply
Anonymous #1
#7
Report Thread starter 1 month ago
#7
(Original post by urlocalinmate)
It's not always a red flag. Maybe this guy doesn't know what true love is?
oh....good point but we do enjoy spending time together though...just not at ''love'' yet
0
reply
Anonymous #1
#8
Report Thread starter 1 month ago
#8
(Original post by JAckieee.chan)
maybe he actually loves you? two weeks is a good amount of time to know a person properly.
i dont know....i feel like two weeks isn't enough although we enjoy spending time together
0
reply
Anonymous #3
#9
Report 1 month ago
#9
why in earth would someone say I love you through texting especially when it's the first time. he has to say it in your face or else he doesn't love you and he's missing around.
0
reply
Anonymous #2
#10
Report 1 month ago
#10
(Original post by Anonymous)
yess,thats what i am saying,i haven't replied to him yet cause I don't know what to say and I cant say it back too soon since I'm not sure if I love him yet
what are you 15? how can you love him after 2 weeks
0
reply
Anonymous #1
#11
Report Thread starter 1 month ago
#11
(Original post by Anonymous)
why in earth would someone say I love you through texting especially when it's the first time. he has to say it in your face or else he doesn't love you and he's missing around.
i agree and thats the problem because it would make stuff awkward and ruin the vibes we had
0
reply
Anonymous #1
#12
Report Thread starter 1 month ago
#12
(Original post by Anonymous)
what are you 15? how can you love him after 2 weeks
i said he said it to me and i havent replied and we are both over 18
0
reply
Bowlol
Badges: 12
Rep:
?
#13
Report 1 month ago
#13
(Original post by Anonymous)
i started dating this new guy and its been 2 weeks and he just said he loves me,I was shocked cause I feel like its too early,is saying'' I love you'' too early considered a red flag?
Maybe he just got caught up in the moment and said that he loved you
0
reply
Anonymous #2
#14
Report 1 month ago
#14
(Original post by Anonymous)
i said he said it to me and i havent replied and we are both over 18
then im sorry to say that hes clearly looking for a quick beat.
But let him know if you're okay.
0
reply
Zarek
Badges: 21
Rep:
?
#15
Report 1 month ago
#15
It can be tempting to say it in the heady early stages of romance and long before it can really be true or wise to come out with. I would just take it that he fancies the pants off you.
Last edited by Zarek; 1 month ago
1
reply
ROTL94
Badges: 20
Rep:
?
#16
Report 1 month ago
#16
(Original post by urlocalinmate)
It's not always a red flag. Maybe this guy doesn't know what true love is?
Is someone not knowing what love is yet claiming to be in love with you not a concern?
0
reply
CaptainDuckie
Badges: 22
Rep:
?
#17
Report 1 month ago
#17
(Original post by Anonymous)
i started dating this new guy and its been 2 weeks and he just said he loves me,I was shocked cause I feel like its too early,is saying'' I love you'' too early considered a red flag?

in general, saying it after two weeks can scare the other person off, and dating experts recommend a good three months (minimum) of wait before saying it.

actions to take from this would be to take it all with a pinch of salt. Don’t really say it back if you don’t feel comfortable, and it’s perfectly ok to question it.

yes, it might have slipped out in the heat of the moment, however, so I wouldn’t let it get to you. But it’s perfectly ok to now question a lot of his behaviours, and think about what he actually wants from you....

an appropriate response might be [i]“what makes you say that?” or ”thank you”.
1
reply
Anonymous #1
#18
Report Thread starter 1 month ago
#18
(Original post by Bowlol)
Maybe he just got caught up in the moment and said that he loved you
i think so too
0
reply
urlocalinmate
Badges: 19
Rep:
?
#19
Report 1 month ago
#19
(Original post by ROTL94)
Is someone not knowing what love is yet claiming to be in love with you not a concern?
I mean, the guy can learn along the way?
1
reply
X

Quick Reply

Attached files
Write a reply...
Reply
new posts
Back
to top
Latest
My Feed

See more of what you like on
The Student Room

You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

Personalise

What support do you need with your UCAS application?

I need help researching unis (20)
14.81%
I need help researching courses (8)
5.93%
I need help with filling out the application form (7)
5.19%
I need help with my personal statement (52)
38.52%
I need help with understanding how to make my application stand out (35)
25.93%
I need help with something else (let us know in the thread!) (3)
2.22%
I'm feeling confident about my application and don't need any help at the moment (10)
7.41%

Watched Threads

View All