My bf does not like to dance with me at the club

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Whenever me and my bf goes clubbing with our friends as well he does not like to dance with me, he says he doesn’t want to make things awkward and that we can dance at home ? But the thing is our friends are in a relationship so nothing is going to be awkward. In reality I look at our friends that are in a relationship dancing and I get upset. Especially when I’m tipsy i get extremely upset about this. He only stands behind me to make sure no guy come behind me he does not grab my waist. We are not anyway close at all. He always makes excuses. And we been dating for 3 years and not once has he ever wanted to dance in a club with me

Idk if that’s a red flag I should be worried about?
I have talked about this number of times and it’s always the same excuse
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Not everyone likes to dance in front of people, so I think you’re being very melodramatic. Your attitude is more of a red flag.
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I wouldn't consider this a red flag, no. From what you have described he is still focused on you, he just doesn't want to dance, and that is an okay preference to have. If he were off dancing with other girls then that would be a red flag!
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(Original post by YaliaV123)
Not everyone likes to dance in front of people, so I think you’re being very melodramatic. Your attitude is more of a red flag.
He is always in the center dancing with his guys and a mix of girls. He encourages his friends to dance with girls but I just find it strange that he wouldn’t wanna do the same. My attitude is not a red flag I’m just trying to get a understanding no need to be rude.
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Its not a red flag if he doesn’t like dancing in public.

It’s potentially a red flag if he’s dancing with other girls and not you. Your second post about him dancing with a mix of girls is very vague so it’s hard to comment.
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My attitude is not a red flag
It really is, what you describe is routinely getting drunk and causing a dramas trying to make someone do something they aren't comfortable doing, there isn't really way to put a positive spin of what you said.
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It really is, what you describe is routinely getting drunk and causing a dramas trying to make someone do something they aren't comfortable doing, there isn't really way to put a positive spin of what you said.
Drunk or not
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(Original post by YaliaV123)
Not everyone likes to dance in front of people, so I think you’re being very melodramatic. Your attitude is more of a red flag.
Yalia!!!

Do you want to dance with the Devil?!?!

D-Devils: Dance with the Devil
Hope you know the song...
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I think you need to stop comparing your relationship to your friends. It’s not a competition, and not very healthy. But, given he doesn’t dance with you, he might be shy? Have you ever danced with him in private before?
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