Thanks. So before my previous relationship, I often went out and to bars etc. I often got attention, but I never know how to respond to that. I also didn't know if the men had partners, and I feel like it's a bit odd being chatted up on the street/in a bar. I do find myself regretting being so unwelcoming, but I'd always heard it's best to find someone through friends and not just randomly... is this the case?