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Hi I'm a gay guy and when I tell this to new people I meet (not other gays) I usually get asked 'are you a top or a bottom?' Both guys and girls ask me this. Do you think this is an acceptable question to ask a gay guy you've just met?
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I think its because as I have mentioned my sexual orientation people think its ok to ask about sex related stuff.
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Hi I'm a gay guy and when I tell this to new people I meet (not other gays) I usually get asked 'are you a top or a bottom?' Both guys and girls ask me this. Do you think this is an acceptable question to ask a gay guy you've just met?
god no, lol. unless it's like on grindr or something
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god no, lol. unless it's like on grindr or something
Yeah it keeps happening though.
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It's a bit weird to ask outside of an actual dating context.
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Yeah it keeps happening though.
some people are just curious i guess but yeah, it's very invasive and they shouldn't do that
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I don't think so but it depends on how open you are as a person.
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