Spin the bottle night turned into a disaster

Hi so I was at a house party with my boyfriend and a few friends.

We were all drinking vodka so got kind of drunk.

We thought it was a funny idea to play spin the bottle (mixture of boys and girls, plus my boyfriend).

My boyfriend ended up having to kiss this other girl, so i agreed but said for maximum 10 seconds.

He looked like he was really enjoying the kiss and so did she.

So I pulled her off by her hair and slapped her and then slapped my boyfriend.

I walked off crying and then the girl followed me and came and slapped me back.

We then started fighting and it turned quite messy (hair pulling, scratching).

People tried to break it up but couldn't.

We eventually stopped.

My boyfriend the next day told me I should feel ashamed and I acted like a psycho.

I told him he shouldn't have kissed her so intensely..

Now my relationship is potentially ruined.

Is there anything I can do to solve this? Or is it over?

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lmao

Lmfao what the **** did I just read

Reply 3

ANM775

why are you even playing that game when you are in a committed relationship?

talk about stupid.....

Reply 4

Zarek

This game is trouble. You should have just given him hell later, even though you authorized a 10s kiss. Apologise and learn from it.

Are you still drunk?

Oh, well, er, so, yeah. Your relationship is quite probably ****ed.

Reply 7

username5794123

Who knows? Maybe spin the bottle again and dare him to come back to you. It sounds like something that you would do, after all

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Reply 8

Reality Check

Original post by Anonymous

I'm so glad I"m not a teenager any longer.

Reply 9

Warm apple pie

Original post by Anonymous

You are a psycho

Reply 10

Seojin

Why would anyone play spin the bottle with other ppl when u r in a relationship?

Reply 11

Reality Check

Original post by Warm apple pie

You are a psycho

She's also a second-year undergraduate student! Go figure.

Reply 12

Anonymous #3

You agreed to play the game, you told them to kiss, you were way out of order. She could, and I wouldn't blame her if she did, report you for assault.

You now need to apologise sincerely to both of them, with no excuses, and hope they accept it and don't play stupid games again.

Reply 13

gjd800

the best thing you can do is reassess your life choices

i thought spin the bottle went out when i was 13 ffs

and to say to your fella 'yeah kiss her, but not like THAT' is just so ridiculous that I am convinced this is a troll

Reply 14

M4cc4n4

Original post by Reality Check

She's also a second-year undergraduate student! Go figure.

Flashbacks of that wonderful Oxbridge undergrad med student who stabbed her boyfriend and got off lightly due to her future career.

Reply 15

Reality Check

Original post by M4cc4n4

Flashbacks of that wonderful Oxbridge undergrad med student who stabbed her boyfriend and got off lightly due to her future career.

Ooh, yes - her. Wasn't she doing medicine at Oxford, and her rather well-connected family managed to get her just a slap on the wrist and sent down for a term or so because she was the Second Coming medicine-wise?