Why are parents like this?

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During the summer holiday we done nothing, we never went out or done anything together.I’ve been rlly bored and depressed because the whole summer holiday I was trapped at home.I’m not allowed to even see my friends.So recently I’ve been going to the park and it was fun with a few family friends but I asked my parents if I can go today n they said no. We don’t ever do anything so the only bit of enjoyment I got was going to the park but even then they don’t want me to go. I’ve never broke their trust or even given them a reason to not trust me but yet they always don’t believe me and always question me. I hate that this always happens and i don’t unstand why they won’t even let me go to the park I’m not asking for them to take me somewhere or asking them to go out with my school friends I’m just asking to go to the park but they won’t even let me go there and the park is literlly 5 mins away from my home. I don’t understand why my parents are like this and it’s so annoying
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are you a south asian girl?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
During the summer holiday we done nothing, we never went out or done anything together.I’ve been rlly bored and depressed because the whole summer holiday I was trapped at home.I’m not allowed to even see my friends.So recently I’ve been going to the park and it was fun with a few family friends but I asked my parents if I can go today n they said no. We don’t ever do anything so the only bit of enjoyment I got was going to the park but even then they don’t want me to go. I’ve never broke their trust or even given them a reason to not trust me but yet they always don’t believe me and always question me. I hate that this always happens and i don’t unstand why they won’t even let me go to the park I’m not asking for them to take me somewhere or asking them to go out with my school friends I’m just asking to go to the park but they won’t even let me go there and the park is literlly 5 mins away from my home. I don’t understand why my parents are like this and it’s so annoying
I'm sorry you're going through this. Living with strict parents is very difficult. Did you ask them why they won't let you go? Have you tried reasoning with them? Tell them how you feel about being trapped in the house with nothing to do.
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During the summer holiday we done nothing, we never went out or done anything together.I’ve been rlly bored and depressed because the whole summer holiday I was trapped at home.I’m not allowed to even see my friends.So recently I’ve been going to the park and it was fun with a few family friends but I asked my parents if I can go today n they said no. We don’t ever do anything so the only bit of enjoyment I got was going to the park but even then they don’t want me to go. I’ve never broke their trust or even given them a reason to not trust me but yet they always don’t believe me and always question me. I hate that this always happens and i don’t unstand why they won’t even let me go to the park I’m not asking for them to take me somewhere or asking them to go out with my school friends I’m just asking to go to the park but they won’t even let me go there and the park is literlly 5 mins away from my home. I don’t understand why my parents are like this and it’s so annoying
me too
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(Original post by Anonymous)
During the summer holiday we done nothing, we never went out or done anything together.I’ve been rlly bored and depressed because the whole summer holiday I was trapped at home.I’m not allowed to even see my friends.So recently I’ve been going to the park and it was fun with a few family friends but I asked my parents if I can go today n they said no. We don’t ever do anything so the only bit of enjoyment I got was going to the park but even then they don’t want me to go. I’ve never broke their trust or even given them a reason to not trust me but yet they always don’t believe me and always question me. I hate that this always happens and i don’t unstand why they won’t even let me go to the park I’m not asking for them to take me somewhere or asking them to go out with my school friends I’m just asking to go to the park but they won’t even let me go there and the park is literlly 5 mins away from my home. I don’t understand why my parents are like this and it’s so annoying
but yes, i am in the same boat as you too, i know it sounds typical but my only way out and freedom is marriage lmao
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but yes, i am in the same boat as you too, i know it sounds typical but my only way out and freedom is marriage lmao
why marriage though?
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but yes, i am in the same boat as you too, i know it sounds typical but my only way out and freedom is marriage lmao
Sorry but, marriage?? Sounds very pre-women's rights to me. If you want freedom, get a job, earn money and move away. Don't wait for someone else to save you.
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Sorry but, marriage?? Sounds very pre-women's rights to me. If you want freedom, get a job, earn money and move away. Don't wait for someone else to save you.
yeah marrying for freedom most likely won't work
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yeah marrying for freedom most likely won't work
For real. That's just a road to another control filled life if she merely marries for freedom. I know we have different cultures, but cultures aren't an excuse for toxicity.
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For real. That's just a road to another control filled life if she merely marries for freedom. I know we have different cultures, but cultures aren't an excuse for toxicity.
exactly!!
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