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Not sure if i’m childish for saying this, iv been speaking to this girl for about 2 months and she’s posted a story today which just gave me the ick. I knew she smoked weed, I do weed too but via edibles, but she posted a story on her private snap of her smoking it and it’s just put me off her because I thought it was nasty.

Might be hypocritical because I do edibles but seeing her smoking it was just nasty. I don’t really want to speak to her anymore but I don’t find her attractive. Am I being petty? Need some advice please?
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It is a little hypocritical but it's not petty. If this is a dealbreaker for you then end it.
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Not sure if i’m childish for saying this, iv been speaking to this girl for about 2 months and she’s posted a story today which just gave me the ick. I knew she smoked weed, I do weed too but via edibles, but she posted a story on her private snap of her smoking it and it’s just put me off her because I thought it was nasty.

Might be hypocritical because I do edibles but seeing her smoking it was just nasty. I don’t really want to speak to her anymore but I don’t find her attractive. Am I being petty? Need some advice please?
Nobody would think it's 'petty' or childish not to speak to someone who smokes weed, even though it is somewhat hypocritical.
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a lot of men are put off by women smoking anything, i wonder why...
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Not sure if i’m childish for saying this, iv been speaking to this girl for about 2 months and she’s posted a story today which just gave me the ick. I knew she smoked weed, I do weed too but via edibles, but she posted a story on her private snap of her smoking it and it’s just put me off her because I thought it was nasty.

Might be hypocritical because I do edibles but seeing her smoking it was just nasty. I don’t really want to speak to her anymore but I don’t find her attractive. Am I being petty? Need some advice please?
If you got put off so quickly maybe it's just a sign that you wasn't as into her as you thought you were - but no it's not childish, some things you just won't find attractive and if smoking is a complete deal-breaker for you then maybe it's time to just cut it off.
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a lot of men are put off by women smoking anything, i wonder why...

If the guy doesn’t smoke, and if he leads a healthy lifestyle, then you’d think he’d want someone more compatible. By contrast, if the guy smokes then he won’t think too much about it when a girl smokes. Edibles are safer (albeit this fact is still unknown) than when you inhale smoke as it has less complications, and actually there are some certain health benefits to them too. I wouldn’t say OP is being petty per say, but I wouldn’t dump someone for smoking weed. Instead, they could just be influenced to a healthier option, like edibles.
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If the guy doesn’t smoke, and if he leads a healthy lifestyle, then you’d think he’d want someone more compatible. Similarly, if the guy smokes then he won’t think too much about it when a girl smokes. Edibles are safer (albeit this fact is still unknown) than when you inhale smoke as it has less complications, and actually there are some certain health benefits to them too. I wouldn’t say OP is being petty per say, but I wouldn’t dump someone for smoking weed. Instead, they could just be influenced to a healthier option, like edibles.
per say? *stiffles pretentious chortle*
also edibles are NOT safer, its soo easy to get the dosage way too high compared to smoking
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per say? *stiffles pretentious chortle*
also edibles are NOT safer, its soo easy to get the dosage way too high compared to smoking

I did say the fact is still unknown.
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She ain't no cool cucumber.
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Nobody would think it's 'petty' or childish not to speak to someone who smokes weed, even though it is somewhat hypocritical.
It wasn’t really the fact of her doing weed, it was more seeing her smoke it. Seemed a little nasty to me
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