Dating apps- wtf am I doing wrong?

Apart from the obvious you keep meeting the wrong type, so keep looking! Etc. I don’t know you but my guess is that you maybe have a certain trait that puts them off the more you get talking to them, like do you seem a bit clingy without realising it? Are you too chatty? Or maybe it’s cos you’re so nice they think they can treat you like ****. Whatever it is, you deserve better. Try making more friends irl and meeting new men through them, cos honestly dating apps are sucky and full of weirdos ngl. Some people ghost you on there for no reason whatsoever, the freaks.

I got a few dates of dating apps. Go for the ones who say they want serious on their bio's. The ones who make it clear in their bio they want a connection and not hookups. Try going for men who you don't find physically attractive too.

When I’ve had too many good looking ********s in my inbox I actually have switched to average looking men but I’m not kidding they’re even ruder than the lookers. Like one I matched with cos I thought he looked like a nice man “oh he’ll do” and he was nothing but creepy and arrogant towards me, patronising etc.

I’ll try and quote all the other replies in the next few days but I’ve seen a few messages suggesting about looks. It’s definitely not this in my case. I got over 1000 likes on tinder and bumble in the first week, and the opening messages from my matches are always calling me things like “beautiful, gorgeous, stunning, etc.” I think they’re blind. I’ve had “sexy” and “hot” too which I find degrading, also “I’d love to take your virginity”. I’ve heard some women get called ugly and fat on dating apps but I haven’t had this. I pout a lot in my pics so maybe look a bit slutty but I’m not a slut
Only thing else I can say rn is other than the ****boys I mentioned I only seem to be attracting potential stalker types, the ones who only give one or two word answers and much older men who call themselves sugar daddies

I can see that you want a serious relationship. Is that correct? I don't want to pry into your private life, but I assume that you're Caucasian or white. I'm just curious, by the way.

I'm not particularly sure how this is relevant, but whatever floats your boat...

Will I ever go on a date or have sex?!

I’m 22 f and have been on dating apps since november. I’ve had male friends so I’m equipped enough to know how to talk to men, I get new matches, likes and messages everyday, get complimented on my looks on there, I’ve been told irl that I have a vibrant and fun personality, I make a effort with my matches, yet I legit cannot get a date from those apps

I just think there must be something wrong with me?! I hate sounding like a moaner but it’s getting me down cos I’m still a virgin and never even had a boyfriend. In this day and age that’s really weird at my age so I feel like I’m running out of time, but I can’t stop this bad luck! The only men who ever want to meet irl are the ****boys, who won’t meet publicly despite my feelings about that and I’m not interested in unless we have a bit of a connection first. The men that do want the same thing as me either suddenly ghost me or never reply in the first place, i try my best but the conversation always fizzles out and I don’t understand why? Some even play games with me, only replying if I double text which I hate doing. I honestly don’t know how some women get dates? Some of my recent matches on dating apps have turned to nothing, I thought things were going well with a match on hinge but it’s clear as day he’s not interested anymore, just won’t admit he’s only replying out of politeness. It’s definitely me carrying that convo now, I’m asking about him to get to know him but feel like all I’m doing is annoying him. Then there’s a bloke who claims he’ll always reply but hasn’t bothered replying to my latest message to him

I’m getting so depressed about this, early on matches say I seem nice, caring, bubbly, fun, funny and sweet, so why does this keep happening to me? Is anyone else in the same boat, or knows how to actually get a date (or 5?) thanks

I’ll try and quote all the other replies in the next few days but I’ve seen a few messages suggesting about looks. It’s definitely not this in my case. I got over 1000 likes on tinder and bumble in the first week, and the opening messages from my matches are always calling me things like “beautiful, gorgeous, stunning, etc.” I think they’re blind. I’ve had “sexy” and “hot” too which I find degrading, also “I’d love to take your virginity”. I’ve heard some women get called ugly and fat on dating apps but I haven’t had this. I pout a lot in my pics so maybe look a bit slutty but I’m not a slut
Only thing else I can say rn is other than the ****boys I mentioned I only seem to be attracting potential stalker types, the ones who only give one or two word answers and much older men who call themselves sugar daddies