How to talk to a girl I like??

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I really like a girl who's in some of my classes at school. We have messaged each other and talked a bit in class but I want to talk to her more and don't know how to do it? Like what sort of things should I message her about to start a conversation? And I'm always quite shy around her in school so how can I be more confident around her and just what should I say to her? I'm also scared that she just doesnt want to talk to me so I don't know how far I should go cause I don't want to annoy her or make her feel uncomfortable? She's the first girl I've ever liked so I have no idea what to do and any help would be lovely!!
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It matters how old you are. If your yr8 - yr10 you can get away with friendly flirting. Just hang around them and throw in small flirty gestures but still keep it friendly as if your “joking” see how she reacts to you. (She will pick up that you probably like her). Doing this your confidence will not be thrown as it could never be an outward rejection. However if your yr11 and above you should be more straight with her. Mostly be kind to her and always look out for her, make sure she eats etc but you can still create a flirtatious atmosphere so you don’t get friend zoned. (Advise from a girl who just finished yr13).
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It matters how old you are. If your yr8 - yr10 you can get away with friendly flirting. Just hang around them and throw in small flirty gestures but still keep it friendly as if your “joking” see how she reacts to you. (She will pick up that you probably like her). Doing this your confidence will not be thrown as it could never be an outward rejection. However if your yr11 and above you should be more straight with her. Mostly be kind to her and always look out for her, make sure she eats etc but you can still create a flirtatious atmosphere so you don’t get friend zoned. (Advise from a girl who just finished yr13).
Thankyou!! we're in yr13 btw. I do try to be nice, like asking how she is but I don't know if she finds it annoying? And i have no idea how to be flirtatious ??
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How did u go about getting her number or snap?
Just go about it the same way u did
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Thankyou!! we're in yr13 btw. I do try to be nice, like asking how she is but I don't know if she finds it annoying? And i have no idea how to be flirtatious ??
I don’t think she should find that annoying. If ur only asking how she is that’s just a nice gesture. She could be shy? Think about anything u have in common with her. What movies does she like or what are the a levels she takes. U could try and Snapchat her. Say hey and try and have a conversation.
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I really like a girl who's in some of my classes at school. We have messaged each other and talked a bit in class but I want to talk to her more and don't know how to do it? Like what sort of things should I message her about to start a conversation? And I'm always quite shy around her in school so how can I be more confident around her and just what should I say to her? I'm also scared that she just doesnt want to talk to me so I don't know how far I should go cause I don't want to annoy her or make her feel uncomfortable? She's the first girl I've ever liked so I have no idea what to do and any help would be lovely!!
You've made numerous threads about this girl. Surely you've found your answer by now? :eyebrow:
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