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Here is the detail, I have been spoken to this girl before, and I like her, so I asked her out. She said she isn't ready for a relationship, so she asks us if we can stay friends for now and I said alright. Since then we keep talk to each other for 3 months during summer holiday. When we get back to school, we still talk to each other in morning as we take same bus. I also start to say hi to her in school when I see her. But since the second week of the school, I have a sense that she is avoiding me and ignoring me (not sure). I texted her on Monday ask how is she doing, she didn't see the message for two days, and she replied it on Wednesday morning. Then I said hi to her in the corridor on Thursday morning, with my friends surround, she was looking at me (not with hatred looking, maybe little bit smiling), but she ignored my greeting and didn't respond. I don't understand why does she do this? Is it bad thing or good thing. What are the possible answers for her weird actions, because she looks friendly but doesn't reply to my greeting really makes me confuse.
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Just leave her alone.

She’s told you she isn’t ready for a relationship, what part of that don’t you understand?

Seems like she wants space, for whatever reason is unknown. I’m guessing because she doesn’t want to give you the wrong idea.
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She’s happy to be a friendly acquaintance but nothing more and is now taking actions to not encourage you because it’s clear you want more. If you back off things will probably be fine
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Here is the detail, I have been spoken to this girl before, and I like her, so I asked her out. She said she isn't ready for a relationship, so she asks us if we can stay friends for now and I said alright. Since then we keep talk to each other for 3 months during summer holiday. When we get back to school, we still talk to each other in morning as we take same bus. I also start to say hi to her in school when I see her. But since the second week of the school, I have a sense that she is avoiding me and ignoring me (not sure). I texted her on Monday ask how is she doing, she didn't see the message for two days, and she replied it on Wednesday morning. Then I said hi to her in the corridor on Thursday morning, with my friends surround, she was looking at me (not with hatred looking, maybe little bit smiling), but she ignored my greeting and didn't respond. I don't understand why does she do this? Is it bad thing or good thing. What are the possible answers for her weird actions, because she looks friendly but doesn't reply to my greeting really makes me confuse.
Just move on. You are setting yourself up for a massive fail. She wont respect your approach and that could affect how she sees you.
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