My boyfriend says he loved his ex more than he lovese now.Watch
Either way egregiously callous and uncalled for and you every right to feel hurt by that. If my partner said that to me i'd probably walk out the door.
What do i do to make myself feel better and make him cross that boundary?
These are just words. There isn't a physical wall there stopping him loving you. He just doesn't care for you that strongly - and if two years have passed and he still doesn't then he most likely never will. It sounds like your relationship has an expiry date.
Love comes in many different forms and he should have said that he had a different kind of love for his ex.
Do you know why his ex left him? Have you spoken to her about it? Do those same reasons still exist? And do they add up to it making sense for you to dump him because he's not good enough in certain areas?
Discuss this with your boyfriend. Get to the bottom of it. Establish whether he merely has a different kind of love with you. More comfortable love and less of an infatuation kind of love.
If his love for you is genuinely less strong, see if you can get him to articulate why. Tell him that it's open season on you and he can give you both barrels.
Listen to what he says, or doesn't say, and take things from there.
A relationship where one person has a weak form of love for the other is one that is built on quicksand foundations. It'll sink a lot quicker than Venice. Or it will carry on as a rotten fetid kind of relationship. It's no good if one person is yearning to be with someone else.