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I have been talking to a girl and we get on really well. We're friends and we talk all the time by message, we have a lot in common and we are quite similar. We've been out and I really enjoyed myself and time goes so quickly and I would like to go out again.

Sometimes she says things that make me think she likes me as more than a friend. I don't respond and have been clear about where I am at. The thing is, I don't find her physically attractive. It might sound shallow but she is not my normal 'type'. Other than that I think I would probably find her perfect, but is she a perfect friend as opposed to a partner?
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Dunnig Kruger
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Keep her as a good platonic friend then.

Do what you can to increase her social circle. From which, you never know, she might find a boyfriend.
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as said, keep her as your friend, unless its gets heated where she wants something more where you do not, then its probably best to cut ties peacefully.

Also you should as a man NEVER be shunned for rejecting a girl, its called preferences and women do it all the time to guys...
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It fine but may lead to angst. I do think doing a lot of date like things with someone because you really like them but not wanting a relationship because you don’t find them physically attractive can mix the person up a lot. From what I’ve seen girls are able to handle being friendzoned better than guys
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Anonymous #2
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Sounds like you should keep her as a friend. Honestly I don't think there's any point dating someone you aren't attracted to.
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Well you can't force yourself to like someone as more than a friend. Hopefully she'll get the message and you will just remain friends.
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Anonymous #1
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Hopefully. I don't flirt or anything and I could be reading it all wrong because I am no good at telling when someone likes me, I just find the things said sometimes odd. I have made it very clear through conversations that I am wanting to be single and am not looking to change that so hopefully she knows, I just don't want to make it personal and make her feel awkward because she's a great person and I really appreciate her.
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What does she look like? And what's your usual type?
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My usual type I would say is slim, pretty and typically girly. She is slim but she is more of a tomboy than girly. I wouldn't say she was unattractive generally speaking, but not the type I would go for usually.
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