My bf of 5+ years (engaged with kids) is barely physical with me anymore.
Before having kids he was so loving and obsessed with me. We’ve been through a really rocky path since and things have been all over the place.
He never touches me anymore. We had sex yesterday for the first time in a month. The only time he touches me is when we have sex which has become so rare, sometimes would be once a week or two weeks and has just been a whole month. Not only is he barely sexual with me, he doesn’t touch me in even the most innocent ways. In that entire month his skin hadn’t made contact with mine at all! Not even brushing past eachother or a hug or anything.
Currently not living together as we needed a little separate time to deal with our relationship issues but we were still together and he’d spend nights with me and still have sex but now it’s like I don’t exist.
It’s bothering me so much because I love physical touch, not even in a sexual way, but I want to be hugged, hold hands, hold eachother, rub etc everything. I don’t feel loved at all and feel like he dislikes me so much he doesn’t even want to be around me.
I don’t want to tell him that it’s bothering me because I don’t want to force him to have to show that love when it’s not natural. I also don’t want to embarrass myself incase he’s talking to someone else and that’s why he’s not bothered about me.
He’s 25 though. What 25 yr old male that’s obsessed with females is only having sex 1 time a month? Is it me? Is he just not interested in me?? What should I do?