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I think it’s unhealthy to unload every detail of your life onto someone, for both you and them.
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If it’s someone close to you like a sibling or partner why not? And if it’s a third party stranger that you don’t plan on seeing again, or just use as an impartial person (like a therapist) why not?
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If it’s someone close to you like a sibling or partner why not? And if it’s a third party stranger that you don’t plan on seeing again, or just use as an impartial person (like a therapist) why not?
Muh 'emotional labour' that's why.
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Muh 'emotional labour' that's why.
Boundaries are a thing and you’re allowed to have them. And if they’re close to you they won’t see it as a burden. A third party would also be allowed to back out at any time they want.
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Boundaries are a thing and you’re allowed to have them. And if they’re close to you they won’t see it as a burden. A third party would also be allowed to back out at any time they want.
I don't disagree but I was making reference to a shitstorm that was started by a bunch of sociopaths years ago about how caring about someone else's problems for 20 minutes was too emotionally laborious.
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