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it's not just my current friend group but literally every single friend group I've ever been in I'm always the one that tends to get left out. No one wants to take pictures with me (they always get me to take them) and if we're all walking somewhere I'm always the one to get left at the back. if we go to a restaurant no one wants to sit next to me and i usually end up in the corner. I'm 24 now and getting fed up with feeling ****. I thought friends were meant to make you feel happy but I've lost count with how many people this has happened with. What am i doing wrong?! am i just not fun enough?? its getting to the point where I'm like whats the point in having friends if i just feel anxious and **** all the time
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Have you found that these people are friends because you like them or because you met them out of circumstance? If you feel like you really click with them then perhaps they take you for granted as you have been the one to take the pictures and such?
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(Original post by Rodders_)
Have you found that these people are friends because you like them or because you met them out of circumstance? If you feel like you really click with them then perhaps they take you for granted as you have been the one to take the pictures and such?
hm i guess you're kinda right, my current friend group are the people i lived with in my first year of uni and although we do get on well i guess we didn't really have a choice. Guess i should focus on trying to make friends based on similar interests
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hm i guess you're kinda right, my current friend group are the people i lived with in my first year of uni and although we do get on well i guess we didn't really have a choice. Guess i should focus on trying to make friends based on similar interests
You don’t have to stop being friends with them. They were important in your life for that amount of time. Definitely sounds like you want a deeper connection with people so similar interests would be a nice way to make friends you can achieve this with. I hope you’re doing okay and I wish you all the best with feeling a stronger connection c:
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i've felt like that before. i think you need a friendship group where you are extremely comfortable to be in.
or, you could maybe just have 1 or 2 good friends, instead of having a group?
wish you the best xx
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