another long-overdue life update because I'm #inconsistent
hello guys! so obviously, it’s been a
whileeeeeeeeeeee since I last updated my blog and you
probably wondered where I disappeared to (
or not; I don’t reckon I’m
that memorable or important to any of you lol. Either way, I hope you’re willing to forgive me for probably my
1000th hiatus during the time this GyG has been running
)
There are mental health and general well-being reasons behind my disappearance (e.g. being so tired I’m
fighting the urge to collapse and sleep
anywhere and
everywhere, lack of motivation
, lack of time
(<< busy bee, get it? lol), overwhelming amounts of stress and anxiety
,
big life changes ahead etc.), but they’re
standard issues of mine and some that I’ve explained before on this blog, so I won’t write a
huge essay about it.
For real this time though, I’m so happy to be back!
Everything about this feels so
natural, and every time something significant in my school life happens, I only wanted to tell you guys
So, grab a snack (
or two.. or three… you might be here for a
while) and prepare for an
excruciatingly long life update from
yours truly,the most inconsistent “blogger” ever, who has the audacity to drop in once every two decades with another apology and awfully long autobiographical post catching you up on what happened whilst I was AWOL.or just
Yemisi. Whichever you prefer.
Also, I hope you guys had a wonderful Christmas and new year’s period! I was meant to tell you that,
you know, a
tad closer to the time and
not a
month late, but I truly didn’t have the mental capacity or morale at the time. The festive wasn’t so festive for me this year, so that sucked, and I can’t even say I did any revision or homework to compensate
But I did get some much-needed rest
, and as you
may or may not know, sleep is one of the
rarest,
most beautiful,
cherished things to me in my life at the moment. I guess what they say is true: Distance makes the heart grow fonder. And my distance from a good night’s sleep made my heart grow immensely fond
Obviously, that didn’t last long and my sleep schedule went back to being distorted as soon as that first Tuesday back at school came, but it was nice whilst it lasted…
ANYWAYS-
new year, new me?It’s
2022 and that’s an absolutely terrifying thought
.
2022 - the year I do my GCSEs, the year I leave secondary school,
the place I’ve spent 5 years growing into a completely new
w and unrecognisable person, the year I start
6th form (saying that feels
illegal), the year I
let go (of
a lot of things,
but especially friends and good memories and familiarity), the year I
push myself, the year I
exceed my boundaries), the year I
change…
a lot.
I think about this and sometimes
stop breathing. I remember I’ll never be as
young and
fruitful as I am now, and I remember I’ll never stop changing -
ever. I remember that the time will never stop ticking and the Earth will never stop orbiting the sun, and as much as I want to hold onto the
things and people I love, I can’t. By the
laws of life and the cycle of humanity, I
physically am. not. allowed.I’m stupendously scared.
But 2022 will be a great year for me. Change is good,
albeit daunting, and I’m trying to embrace it.
Moving on from my existential crisis:Here are some study-related New Years Resolutions of mine:
If I think of any others, I'll let you know, but for now, let’s just hope I can keep up with the ones I’ve got as of now!
mocksSo mocks. Mocks that happened in
November. Mocks that happened
how many months ago. Mocks that happened
last year. Mocks I kept promising to update you on, but I just didn’t????
Honestly, I won’t go
too much into my mocks now because of how seemingly long ago they were and I’ve got far more relevant and imminent things to discuss with you guys, but I will tell you my general thoughts on them, how I did and what I learned.
so, on the first day of my mocks, I had English literature as my only exam. I was
so so incredibly
nervous and
overwhelmed that literally a few minutes before we went into the exam hall, I started welling up and then proceeded to sob
. I didn’t feel like I had had enough time to revise and I was really worried
about what would happen if I couldn’t remember 'an inspector calls' quotes (I was struggling to remember eric, Gerald and Mrs Birling quotes, and
funny enough, neither of the question choices were on them
hahaha so funny). I was also worried about the poetry quotes
. I consider English my strongest subject, so I put a lot of pressure on myself to make sure I did well because if I didn’t, I would go into a
crippling depression of feeling
useless and untalented and bad at everything I do lol
. for me, it’s very much
‘if I can’t do English, I can’t do anything' and I was terrified to do badly and disappoint not only myself but my English teacher who always believes in and encourages me. He was marking the paper, and I feared he’d read it and be like
“lol what in the world is this?”. well, guess what? the poem we were given was an incredibly
pleasant one to analyse and one that matches hand-in-hand with a poem I know like the
back of my stupid hand????? what a waste of tears lol after that, the rest of the exams, whilst still slightly nerve-wracking, weren’t
half as bad.
I didn’t stress out. I didn’t overwhelm myself. I didn’t hyperventilate and cry as a pre-exam ritual, which I’d say is pretty successful lol. by the second and final week of exams, I
barely felt
anything walking into the exam hall every day
. In fact, I felt quite
bored of exams and wanted them to be over ASAP. I was also
excruciatingly tired and burnt out, which definitely played a part in my sudden change of attitude towards my mocks.
Anyways, my scores weren’t that bad!!!
Here were the grades I got!
dramaMoving on, you
may or may not remember me talking about my
crazy drama teacher changing our
GCSE DRAMA PIECE (
LIKE 15% OF THE ENTIRE QUALIFICATION) literally
days before it was meant to be
performed and graded.
On the 9th of November, we performed it and it went
okay!
We had to run through it
quite a few times, and at parts, I was
really stressed because of all the
sudden and
last-minute feedback we were receiving from my drama teacher and others watching the performance before it got recorded - like, this was my
actual GCSE performance, and minutes before the version that would be recorded and sent off for
GRADING was to be filmed, our group was still messing up
. But we acted upon the feedback accordingly, and pulled it together, even though I didn’t and still don’t think the performance was
impeccable. It was good enough to get me
AT LEAST an
okay grade, which I’ll accept given all the
turmoil and unexpected challenge we faced in the development of this
one piece of theatre. When we did our final recorded run through, most in the class were watching, and after, when it went
silent and the lights went down,
everyone clapped and started hugging each other (because they knew how many times we had been forced to
drastically change our piece, even till days before the graded performance). It was a really
proud and monumental moment for me - it made all the effort and tears seem worth it
I’m very glad to have had such a supportive class. I then stayed to watch the others practice and record their performances is. It was a successful day, and I’m
incredibly proud of how everyone in the class pulled together (even under difficult circumstances)
.
Honestly, I can’t remember much else about that situation because the whole debacle caused me so much
stress, I wanted
so. badly. for it to be over and done with. Like, when it was done, it completely left my mind because I literally never wanted it to think about it again.
Ever. Again.When we came back to school after Christmas, we did a timed 1h 30min evaluation of our performance, which is a
very important part of the grade we receive for this component of the Drama GCSE. I think it went okay, especially since I consider writing one of my strong suits. It was done over two lessons in class, and is now being graded! I ended up writing about 5 pages, of which I’m really proud of, but I’m sure my grammar suffered because of the sheer amounts I wrote lol. Again, not thinking too much about that because it’s in the past and there’s not much to say about it till I receive my grade back, but yeah! I’ll let you know about any further progressions!
textilesFurther,
I finished my Textiles Practical work!!!! I still have the portfolio and other writing bits to finish, but I’m
so happy the physical skirt is complete!!!! I think it turned out
so well!!!
I’ll attach a pic!!!!german speakingAs part of my upcoming February mocks, last week we had Language Speaking Exams. Unlike the speaking exam practice we had done way back when last year, this time it included the general conversation (
worth 30 marks!!!!!!), which I was
terrified for. It was my
first time doing this so I didn’t really know what to expect, and that anticipation made the whole experience so much
more stressful than it had to be
. I felt, like I do with most exams, that the revision I had done wasn’t adequate (even though most times it is).
It turned out okay though! I did the photo card, role-play and general conversation fairly easily, and (
most of) the topics I was asked questions on were
surprisingly pleasant!!!
the last topic I was asked questions on was ‘Holidays’ though, which is
unfortunate because that’s the topic we did
most recently, I knew relatively
little about and I revised
the least, not thinking it’d come up. I was able to get through with general German knowledge, but it probably wasn’t as fluent or cohesive as it
could have been. I was also asked to ask a question at the end and
my mind totally froze and I got super overwhelmed and panicked and hated my brain for not being able to think faster, and after a while, I just asked my teacher if I could leave it. This probably lost me a mark or two, but next time, I know not to let my nerves dominate me and to ask the question during the conversation (without a prompt by the examiner at the end) with a topic I’m more comfortable with (the question I asked had to be related to ‘holidays’ as that was the topic we were currently discussing, and I suck at the holiday topic).
I’ll use this as a learning experience, and will make sure to revise EVERYTHING in the future We find out our scores this week, so I’ll let you know what i got out of 60!
A-Level and Sixth FormNow, the question that has caused me
so much stress…
What am I taking for my A-Levels? I had always known what Sixth Form I was attending, so that was never a problem, but
OH MY GOD, figuring out what subjects I wanted to do for A-Levels was the
dictionary definition for
‘a problem’. I’m a really clingy and indecisive person, in that I have a hard time letting things go and not dwelling on
‘what could have been’.
What if in Year 13, you suddenly decide you want to become a vet but you didn’t take biology and chemistry?What if you suddenly decide fashion isn’t your passion?What if you actually want to become a geographer or climatologist or marine biologist?What if you end up hating your A-Level choices?What if you get it wrong?The fact I’m not really sure what I want to do with my life apart from
something ‘creative’ didn’t help much either.
Realistically, I know what I take at A-Level isn’t the
be-all and end-all, but it
feels that way, and I can’t seem to shake the subtle, but simultaneously overbearing, feeling that
one mistake messes up my
whole life. This is the first time (in my life probably) I’ve had to narrow down my options so much, and the thought of letting so much go is
hard. Maybe this is something I should see a therapist about lmao.
Anyways, all the subjects I considered were:
And I had to
half that….
Down to
four….
Max.Three, ideally.
It was immensely difficult and I felt so much pressure, like the world would
implode and I would disappear.
(Here’s some photographic evidence of me and my friends struggling to pick my subjects haha)
However, after weeks of
harassing my friends for their opinions, drawing
excessive amounts of
pros and
cons lists, talking to teachers
, and
non-stop overthinking,
today, I finally decided what subjects I want to take after a meeting with my school careers consultant, which was
conveniently timed considering I have to submit which subjects I want to take
tomorrow.
I still feel unsure and don’t really know if the decision I’m making is right, but I’m trying to trust and reassure myself that there is no “right” decision and that whatever
feels right to me,
is right.
So: here are the A-Level subjects I’m taking:
Why:Now, it was between German and Geography, but I think I’ve decided German for now. I can always change from German to Geography in the first few weeks of 6th Form anyway (though I’d prefer not to) so I’ll see how I feel in a few months time!
I’ll tell you why I wanted to take Geography, so you can offer any opinions or advice you have, given the other subjects I’m taking, perhaps, experience and just general knowledge!
So:
Why did I consider Geography at all?Anyways that’s it I think?
Opinions
much appreciated!! I like German and Geography basically the same, so this is a really difficult decision I’d appreciate input on!
Okay well this is getting really long, so I’ll cut it off there, but I hope you guys feel well updated! Thanks for reading, thanks for listening, thanks for sticking around with me, and see you in the next post (which I promise won’t be next year lol) <3 Let me know if you have any questions or if there’s anything I missed!!
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