My mentally ill father, who was a bully when he was young, has to know everything. I grew up, being constantly bullied everyday. After a decade, the bullying became less. Now it's about 1 or 2 times a week.
Everyone knows I'm an aromantic . Even my family knows. When I told my father that I had a friendboy (Not boyfriend!!!), he got angry and told my mum that I had a boyfriend so now my mum keeps putting pressure on me that I have a boyfriend but I actually don't.
My father has to know everything about me which makes me an easier target towards bullying. It pisses me off that my mum always pretends to be nice to me and stop the bullying but she makes ir worse...She tells dad everything. And I mean EVERYTHING. He knows my period cycle, my sexuality, my most hated foods..etc. He doesn't know my age, hobbies, if I have any friends, my plans for the future.
One day, my school accidently gives me a late mark in the car (I go to school very early). My mum recieves a message and then she tells my dad which makes him suspicious, "Are you going with boys?Are you going with boys?Are you going with boys?" he asks me seriously. I say that I don't and never will. Mum doesn't believe me... I tell my parents that I can speak to my head of year myself an sort it out but my dad and mum keep saying "We'll phone the school.We'll phone the school We'll phone the school". I hate that every minor incident or thing they either go to my school or phone the school. I want to sort y things out myself but my parents keep budging their heads in EVERYTHING. I want to sort my own situations by myself.