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Mnklop
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Hi im 20 and i've been living with my bf for about 6 months now.
So first time i found he watches porn was like a month ago, i found fer porm videos in his phone. After that i asked him about it and he was like he watches them to try various positions and to ask me for those orals for him.. the moment he said that i didn't believe him.cuz i felt like he was lying and making excuses. But i didnt argue about it with him and passed it over even tho i felt hurt and disappointed.
But then like yesterday, i found a porn video in his phone again.
At this point, i don't know what to do. It's not that he treats me differently or have troubles when we have sex or whatever. And i also watch porn videos. But the thing that upsets me is that he watches other girls naked and stuff like that.. i know i have no right to say him to stop watching them but i still feel hurt and upset. And the videos were naked girls being all naughty and u know the videos for guys.. what should i do about it and how should i start a conversation with him..?? Plz give me advice..
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Have you suggested some man on man content for him to watch?
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(Original post by Mnklop)
Hi im 20 and i've been living with my bf for about 6 months now.
So first time i found he watches porn was like a month ago, i found fer porm videos in his phone. After that i asked him about it and he was like he watches them to try various positions and to ask me for those orals for him.. the moment he said that i didn't believe him.cuz i felt like he was lying and making excuses. But i didnt argue about it with him and passed it over even tho i felt hurt and disappointed.
But then like yesterday, i found a porn video in his phone again.
At this point, i don't know what to do. It's not that he treats me differently or have troubles when we have sex or whatever. And i also watch porn videos. But the thing that upsets me is that he watches other girls naked and stuff like that.. i know i have no right to say him to stop watching them but i still feel hurt and upset. And the videos were naked girls being all naughty and u know the videos for guys.. what should i do about it and how should i start a conversation with him..?? Plz give me advice..
BF watches porn
You watch porn
But you don't like him watching porn. The problem is with you as you are setting double standards. It would only be fair if you don't watch porn too
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If you both watch porn, it's awfully hypocritical to judge him for it. Perhaps tell him you're willing to stop if he does due to your insecurities?
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