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So I have always assumed I was straight and have had crushes on men before but have never actually wanted to be in a relationship with even the men I had crushes on. I find women much more attractive and the idea of being in a relationship with a woman sounds much more appealing but I have never had an actual crush on a woman before so I am wondering if I am making it up. Can anyone help?
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So I have always assumed I was straight and have had crushes on men before but have never actually wanted to be in a relationship with even the men I had crushes on. I find women much more attractive and the idea of being in a relationship with a woman sounds much more appealing but I have never had an actual crush on a woman before so I am wondering if I am making it up. Can anyone help?
Just to clarify, are you female?

There's a difference between romantic and sexual attraction so someone could be romantically attracted to men but sexually to women etc. Or you might be bi/pan. You could just say queer, or have no label at all - labels aren't always needed :nah:
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So I have always assumed I was straight and have had crushes on men before but have never actually wanted to be in a relationship with even the men I had crushes on. I find women much more attractive and the idea of being in a relationship with a woman sounds much more appealing but I have never had an actual crush on a woman before so I am wondering if I am making it up. Can anyone help?
LEt me guess .. your a white female ?
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So I have always assumed I was straight and have had crushes on men before but have never actually wanted to be in a relationship with even the men I had crushes on. I find women much more attractive and the idea of being in a relationship with a woman sounds much more appealing but I have never had an actual crush on a woman before so I am wondering if I am making it up. Can anyone help?
Your best bet would be to date a woman and see if you are into them emotionally or sexually or both. It's normal for people to question their sexuality, especially in your late teens to early 20s.
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