Boyfriend lied about drugs

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I made it clear to my boyfriend (both 21) of 4 years I wouldn’t be comfortable if he tried drugs such as c0caine and others along them lines, and I would break up with him if he did, or, to break up with me if he wants to do it. The day after coming back from a holiday together I found out from his friends he tried c0ke and when I confronted him he had done it over a year ago and only done it once, but idk if I believe him. Because he had lied to me on numerous occasions when I asked he has tried it because he was making jokes that he did it and he said no. He also works with people who do this every week and they are the ones that got him to try it. Is it right to end things?
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It's fine to end it over something as serious as that. The immediate effect on you is the lies, his health and the money he's wasting on drugs. Then there's it being illegal, and the implications of smuggling and county lines on other people and their families.
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That’s what I thought but it felt like I was being out of order because he was saying “I never told you because you would’ve reacted how you are now” and that I was banning him from trying things. Thank you for your perspective
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You don't have to censor the word cocaine. If it was a hard limit for you and he crossed it it's fair enough to end it
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(Original post by Anonymous)
That’s what I thought but it felt like I was being out of order because he was saying “I never told you because you would’ve reacted how you are now” and that I was banning him from trying things. Thank you for your perspective
That is another way to put it - but if he consistently lied to you about it knowing it's this much of a big deal to you then that's no good.
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