No one ever says I’m attractive

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I’ve probably been called pretty a couple of times to my face but never by friends or family (mum says it once a year?). It sounds so vain but it gets to me sometimes. Friends will compliment people that aren’t even attractive, I do know it’s subjective and mean but I’m being honest with my thoughts. My mum said I’m a “6” on the scale of attractiveness because I don’t wear makeup, she said I’d be a 7/8 with makeup. But that’s just my mums opinion so probably not accurate. I also know I’m not “ugly” but not “beautiful”; I’m probably “cute”. As I said it doesn’t normally get to me but sometimes I just feel down bc no one ever flirts with me or asks me out apart from odd occasions. I just worry no one will ever find me attractive. Thanks x
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The 1-10 scale for attractiveness is so stupid imo
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What people say and what they think are often 2 different things, besides you shouldn't be basing your self esteem on what people do or don't say or think about you.
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Wow... I mean rates dont matter but your mum rating you 6 without makeup is so unnecessary.
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Wow... I mean rates dont matter but your mum rating you 6 without makeup is so unnecessary.
And she wonders why I have low confidence…
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And she wonders why I have low confidence…
Idc if my child looked like Shrek, I would tell them they're incredibly beautiful and try to up their self esteem. Sorry about that. No wonder you have low confidence. But honestly, it's not even about who is attractive and who is beautiful, you are valid. Your face, body and you as a person are valid. Let your personality shine brighter...
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the look does not matters the manerrs does matter i would judge people from their manners not by their looks me as a girl people has different opinion but this is my opinion
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Idc if my child looked like Shrek, I would tell them they're incredibly beautiful and try to up their self esteem. Sorry about that. No wonder you have low confidence. But honestly, it's not even about who is attractive and who is beautiful, you are valid. Your face, body and you as a person are valid. Let your personality shine brighter...
that is true
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the look does not matters the manerrs does matter i would judge people from their manners not by their looks me as a girl people has different opinion but this is my opinion
Yep it's your personality and attitude that matters the most. Nothing is more beautiful than someone being themselves.
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Yea but a 6 isn't bad at all- but for your MUM to say that.... yikes.. she was probably being honest too because most peoples would lie and say 10/10 babes
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your personality makes you more atractive than your looks
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I’ve probably been called pretty a couple of times to my face but never by friends or family (mum says it once a year?). It sounds so vain but it gets to me sometimes. Friends will compliment people that aren’t even attractive, I do know it’s subjective and mean but I’m being honest with my thoughts. My mum said I’m a “6” on the scale of attractiveness because I don’t wear makeup, she said I’d be a 7/8 with makeup. But that’s just my mums opinion so probably not accurate. I also know I’m not “ugly” but not “beautiful”; I’m probably “cute”. As I said it doesn’t normally get to me but sometimes I just feel down bc no one ever flirts with me or asks me out apart from odd occasions. I just worry no one will ever find me attractive. Thanks x
Everyone likes being complimented, sadly even tho they are free they arent given out enough. Im sorry you are feeling like that, im sure you look lovely
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Everyone likes being complimented, sadly even tho they are free they arent given out enough. Im sorry you are feeling like that, im sure you look lovely
same i think the same way as what you think
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I’ve probably been called pretty a couple of times to my face but never by friends or family (mum says it once a year?). It sounds so vain but it gets to me sometimes. Friends will compliment people that aren’t even attractive, I do know it’s subjective and mean but I’m being honest with my thoughts. My mum said I’m a “6” on the scale of attractiveness because I don’t wear makeup, she said I’d be a 7/8 with makeup. But that’s just my mums opinion so probably not accurate. I also know I’m not “ugly” but not “beautiful”; I’m probably “cute”. As I said it doesn’t normally get to me but sometimes I just feel down bc no one ever flirts with me or asks me out apart from odd occasions. I just worry no one will ever find me attractive. Thanks x
Why does it even matter though? Like if you are beautiful or attractive, cool but if you aren't, then there isn't much you can do about it apart from wear makeup or lose weight?
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And not everyone is beautiful or attractive and that is okay. A 6/10 is pretty decent. You don't need compliments.

I recommend to get a boyfriend and have sex, you will get compliments from him.
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And not everyone is beautiful or attractive and that is okay. A 6/10 is pretty decent. You don't need compliments.

I recommend to get a boyfriend and have sex, you will get compliments from him.
thats true and easear for you not me
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thats true and easear for you not me
I am talking to Anonymous #1 . Their mum doesn't compliment them so they can get a boyfriend and have sex, surely then, they will get the compliments they desire....
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I am talking to Anonymous #1 . Their mum doesn't compliment them so they can get a boyfriend and have sex, surely then, they will get the compliments they desire....
thats true
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thats true
what if i was in her or his position and i can not then what to do

(Original post by Anonymous)
I am talking to Anonymous #1 . Their mum doesn't compliment them so they can get a boyfriend and have sex, surely then, they will get the compliments they desire....
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thats true
what if i was in her or his position and i can not then what to do
Pay a person to have sex with them. There are online apps. Or you can just go up to someone £100 or £200 and offer a man or woman to have sex with them and take them to a hotel room which costs maybe £70..
Money is important, you see.....
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