Potential date ghosted me suddenly on Snapchat, so why has he liked me on tinder?

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So I met someone not far from me on plenty of fish he was 26 and I’m 22, we seemed to get on really well via messages although hadn’t arranged a date, I was too chicken to ask him out and he didn’t ask me out either

I just assumed maybe he was biding his time. Especially since he had coronavirus! We both seemed to be on the same page, wanted the same thing. Fancied each other like mad. But then suddenly one day we were talking and he opened my snap but never replied. He didn’t die, I talked to him after he recovered

Just had a look on tinder and this same bloke has swiped right on me, I know it’s him cos everything is the same. Why has he ghosted me then liked me somewhere else wtf does this mean? Is it some kinda mind game? He says in his profile no catfishes but I never even catfished him, on Snapchat neither of us sent snaps but we know what the other looks like so no need. Should I just ignore him and not like him back? I’m really confused
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He may be viewing you as a possible ons or backup chick for when he is bored.
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I think he finds you attractive but doesn’t want to pursue you for whatever reason. He might have ghosted cos he feels like you’re not that interested in him. Do you still like him? If you do, just drop him a quick message like “hey don’t know what happened to you before haha but hope you’re ok” or you could send this 👻😉 see what happens. If he doesn’t reply you have your answer, he is not interested. If he does reply just pick up where you left off and say “would you ever meet me sometime?” Then you’ll know if he’s deadly serious about meeting.
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Maybe he was a catfish and the real one swiped right. He would want a catfish to catfish the catfish
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