Would you get into a relationship with someone who's waiting till marriage

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Just curious.
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yes i would

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I could be in a relationship where I waited a long time to have sex, but I don't think I'd be compatible with someone who was waiting until marriage specifically.
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No. I would not make a commitment like that without knowing that we are compatible in the bedroom. Sexual incompatibility has led to the breakdown of several of my previous relationships, so I wouldn't be prepared to make that gamble of waiting until after marriage.
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yeah, and no im not religious
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No.
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If we get married within like a week then yh
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If we get married within like a week then yh
You wouldn't mind if the divorce settlement negotiations last for longer than the marriage took to fizzle out due to sexual incompatibility?
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Yeah, if she is a virgin sure.
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Absolutely not. I value an active sex life too much.
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In my own opinion yes why not what if he fill in love with me
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You wouldn't mind if the divorce settlement negotiations last for longer than the marriage took to fizzle out due to sexual incompatibility?
There are a handful full of people in this world I’d be prepared to risk it all for, at that point if it doesn’t work out then whatever.
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No because I would be the one waiting until marriage.
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ok its on your opinion
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So most ppl r saying no.

So as a followup question what if they were willing to do everything else except vaginal ***
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So most ppl r saying no.

So as a followup question what if they were willing to do everything else except vaginal ***
If someone is going to commit to no sex before marriage, then they should be 100% committing. Oral and anal sex are still sex acts, as are all other forms of sexual contact. I wouldn't be able to take someone seriously if they said they're up for everything besides PIV, so that would still be a no as far as I'm concerned.
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So most ppl r saying no.

So as a followup question what if they were willing to do everything else except vaginal ***
It's hard to conceive of a self-consistent system of morality that forbids exactly vaginal sex but allows everything else. It really doesn't make much sense.

I wouldn't be interested in dating a person that made that distinction, not because I'm keen on vaginal sex specifically, but because it would suggest to me that they had some odd, irrational sexual hangups.
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So most ppl r saying no.

So as a followup question what if they were willing to do everything else except vaginal ***
I've heard this is a thing amongst Christians in the US and there's a song about it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j8ZF_R_j0OY

Never been really true if it's urban myth or not https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/...heir-virginity but it seems very hypocritical and I'm with the other posters than it just seems weird.

Edit: I suppose it made a certain amount of sense when vaginal sex carried a risk of pregnancy (so your sin would be found out), but now we have effective contraception I don't understand it at all.
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