Can women stay friends with guys who fancy them?Watch
If the girl is single, then sure why not.
But if shes in a relationship, you as the boyfriend should be very careful and probably set boundaries for her not to talk to any ''guy friends'' I know some people will scream ''thats unfair'' bla bla bla, but you have to understand those ''guy friends'' intention is to get in her panties...
Are you willing to risk that even if your girl says that you should trust her regardless?
Hard to judge, since Ive seen girls sleep with their ''guy friends'' as revenge, or insert some other random reasoning.
Most girls that I simped over, (Wanted to be in relationship/sex with them) turned out that they would use me for attention/validation as is if they called/text me, I would be respond fast. I was basically that ''beta simp'' if you want to call it that.
Its not health in the long run, since you get atttached the longer it goes, and get upset when shes banging another dude and your on the sidelines is never a good position to be in... It shows that you are needy. Which girls hate, so thats why she considers you her friend to begin with
Since im a lot more aware of gender freind/relationship dymanic, I dont waste time on girls anymore that dont show the same interest in me back.
Meaning I cannot just be ''friends'' with a girl that I have a thing for. Its cap, I also dont let my gf have any male friends apart from one, which I trust a lot and we both have respect for each other, thats it!
I probably have less then 5 genuine female platonic friends in my life, simply because theres no interest for anything on my side of things to the point I would reject sex even if they demanded me lmao!
''If you’re a woman, Can you stay close friends with a guy who fancies you but you don’t reciprocate?''
Sure, if you realise that he wants something more and his intentions behind. But its unfair for the guy wether he realises it or not. Its no secret women use guys that pedal stool them at their advantage... Some even call it manipulation.
As stated before, its a weird dynamic, and others state its awkward, because it can be at times..
A lot of the time these friendships are simply a matter of having mutual friends. You hang out in the same circles so you're friends. But the friendship wouldn't survive one person moving away. In that case, there's not much staying power.
Sometimes the friendship can be parasitic. The guy might want attention from the girl and the girl might want attention from the guy. If it runs both ways, then it's stable, but if it's one-sided, then it's not stable.
Occasionally you might have a legitimate friendship, in the same way as a guy might be friends with his guy friends, and on top of that there's a sexual attraction in one direction. In that case, I think the friendship will survive easily (if the person isn't being desperate). In my experience this is kind of rare though - usually the girl will be a tom boy or something.
If a guy is told by a female friend that sh doesn’t want to date him, is it a bad idea for the guy to continue being friends with her and seeing her 1 on 1 a lot?
Limit interaction for a while or go out in groups.
You guys could probably stay friends for a while, but chances are that things may dissolve when one of you gets into a relationship if either of your significant others knows that feelings were there.
its a bit awkward but ive made it known i dont like them and that i still like someone else. they got the hint eventually and we hang out every break and lunch