I don’t know why I’m like this.

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Anonymous #1
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Everytime I talk to a guy or if I’m familiar with them but never talked to them and just see them around , I catch feelings.
Im not joking or wasting time I am genuinely curious why am I like this like I just wish I wasn’t like this cos it gets me upset. I end up liking them for months on months eventhough ive never even talked to them before.
Help.
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Anonymous #2
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you don’t actually like them. you like the idea OF them. you can’t fall for someone without knowing them
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Anonymous #1
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Anyway I can stop this.?. it’s very unhealthy for me and it leaves me very upset. Im 17 and I shouldn’t be acting like this :/
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Anonymous #3
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I was in the same situation, and I kind of still am here and there. But the only thing that helps is by focusing on myself, I got 3 jobs to keep me busy, that way im only focused on the jobs and not anyone else. Its hard, but it helps. Im not saying get 3 jobs, but do something that keeps you focused and engaged on something else.

Always remind yourself you’re working for yourself, if you have siblings or friends, go out with them. But main thing is, reminding yourself everyday that you’re keeping yourself busy for yourself, working on yourself, trying to make a future for yourself.
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I was in the same situation, and I kind of still am here and there. But the only thing that helps is by focusing on myself, I got 3 jobs to keep me busy, that way im only focused on the jobs and not anyone else. Its hard, but it helps. Im not saying get 3 jobs, but do something that keeps you focused and engaged on something else.

Always remind yourself you’re working for yourself, if you have siblings or friends, go out with them. But main thing is, reminding yourself everyday that you’re keeping yourself busy for yourself, working on yourself, trying to make a future for yourself.
Thank you this really helps.. I need to stop because a lot of it’s very unhealthy. Like the men are pretty old in comparison to me and it’s obviously not normal so
once again , thank you
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