My life is crap compared to everyone else i knowWatch
My sister- Her life is better because she is older than me, had the benefit my parents when they were younger, went to 6th form instead of college, had had better brakes career wise and better prospects.
My friends- Have better jobs than me, most are in relationships
Myself- i`m single, live on my own have a crap job
I think it’s helpful to try to be happy for others and to use their success as motivation to gain your own. You see these things and know that’s what you want for your life, so the next step is to try to make that happen for yourself. Wishing you the best and I hope things change for the better!
Everything is just so hopeless.
Hi, there you are not a loser you are far from one. Just know that everyone has there own path in life. And I get that it looks like everyone is doing better than you but they are not sweetie. Keep your head up. If you need someone to talk. Dm your insta and we can talk.
I am i only left school with 2 GCSE`s and had to go to college and do a GNVQ intermediate level qualification. I was too thick to do A levels so i had to do Btec nationals instead.
Don’t put yourself down, prove everyone wrong and most of all yourself, also keep your failures and L’s on the low only make noise for your wins don’t give up
You can do this!
I can’t tell if this a troll or not LOL. If you didn’t want to consider any sort of advise in this thread why did you start it? Also, BTECs are not only for dumb people, I know plenty of 2021 students who finished their BTECs this year and are off to unis like Bristol, Warwick, Southampton, etc. Just because you didn’t have the effort to put in work to get good grades doesn’t mean the qualification is bad (same goes for your relationship status, career). If I was you I would take time to understand what is actually going wrong with you and work on it.
But I was always lead to believe when i was younger that if you were clever you went to 6th form and if you were thick you went to college.
I wish i had proper A levels.
You have a job, unlike many, even if you dont like it and you can always look for a new one. You have friends and family, thats what counts, and theres no reason to be comparing yourself against them - especially as they could be just as, if not more, miserable.
Go find some new things to do, people to meet to try and get yourself out of the rut. It might feel bad fromn your perspective but in the grand scheme of things you've got little to worry about.
I dont say this to be cruel, i know exactly how you feel, i've been there myself on a number of occassions but life has a way of straightening itself out eventually if youre willing to put the effort in and change your mindset. The longer you keep telling yourself youre a failure the harder itll be to realise its bull.
But to be even more honest you need to cease the day. If you hate your job find a new entry of specification, that is exciting to you. The world is often full of possiblity. You can study biotechnology and work in genome engineering and human gene therapy, you become a scholar of ancient languages or take a keen interest in architecture. You can help people who are struggling with what you were with when you were in school by trying to be the most inclusive teacher possible and aiding people who are feeling disassociated from school because of their wondering minds or stark personalities. You can travel the world exposing yourself to different cultures and different people. There's likely even possiblity of you becoming passionate about accounting or equity law. Who's to say their boring?!! Your not bound or restricted to anything outside of physical laws your free to feel and think and imagine. The world is your oyster!! You don't have to talk to people who seem mundane, or parents that make you feel melancholy about your being. In the most frank way, life is to short to be worrying about such insignificant things. Overused or otherwise. You have to ask yourself what the meaning of life is to you. Is it helping as much people and life as possible? What about reaching calm and serenity in the face of suffering? What about contemplating about our place in the physical world, thinking about wether the universe will eventually cease to exist due to the laws of thermodynamics? Or asking deep metaphysical questions like how we're perceiving reality might be a lie or how we know something to be objectively true considering a perspective is by definition a limited view of something. How can we know decipher towards an ultimate perspective?