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I’m a virgin and I’m currently in college. I tried to have sex with my boyfriend and it doesn’t seem to fit. I thought this is strange because when I do it myself I can stretch myself quite far. I feel 100% ready for it but when we try it just will not fit. Any advice?
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(Original post by Mochi___)
I’m a virgin and I’m currently in college. I tried to have sex with my boyfriend and it doesn’t seem to fit. I thought this is strange because when I do it myself I can stretch myself quite far. I feel 100% ready for it but when we try it just will not fit. Any advice?
Have you guys tried foreplay? I find that usually helps. If not then I'd see a GP or talk to a professional.
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plenty of lube and relax!! when you’re not fully relaxed you will tighten up. Loads of foreplay and only do it if you really want to. If you don’t feel comfortable, stop. make sure you’re in an environment you’re fully comfortable in
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(Original post by Mochi___)
I’m a virgin and I’m currently in college. I tried to have sex with my boyfriend and it doesn’t seem to fit. I thought this is strange because when I do it myself I can stretch myself quite far. I feel 100% ready for it but when we try it just will not fit. Any advice?
It's a common thought to have!
It's good you're familiar with your body and you're feeling 100% ready. Just take your time, enjoy the moment, use a lot of lube if needed, and relax. The more you relax and get into the flow of things, the easier sex will be. Focus on the foreplay and warming up, it's the build-up that's most important. Also, it could also be a mental block you're experiencing? It's all the more reason to relax and go at a pace you're comfortable with. The more you think about your boyfriend not fitting, the more likely you're going to keep thinking that way.
It's the effort of both parties working together and making it work. It's worth discussing with your boyfriend how you feel and then maybe you guys can help the situation so that you both can enjoy yourselves.
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