Do you know of any guys, men, who have paid for sex or have had sex with escorts?

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and they have no regrets doing that? just asking because, i'm strongly considering that, i've never done that before, while i'm not a virgin, i feel i don't have enough sexual experience yet, and i've considered seeking out an escort just to get more sex practice.

For years i was against paying for sex, but i feel my feelings or mindset has changed towards that, since i've heard of some guys, men, say they have no regrets doing that.

I feel these are the only reasons or circumstances i would be for it when it comes to paying for sex or having sex with an escort, sex worker, they are: 1.) The guy is still a virgin by a certain age. 2.) The guy is on a very long dryspell. 3.) the guy doesn't have enough sexual experience, still feels like a beginner in sex.

I feel i would only be against it if it becomes a regular or consistant or constant thing, because of course at the end of the day, we want to have sex with someone we have an emotional connection with, someone who is actually attracted to us, not just for money or business reasons, etc.
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Personally I don't know of anyone who has but then I'm female so I doubt any guy would admit to me if they had used one. I've never told people my sexual history, if a guy uses an escort he should just keep that to himself. As for feeling regrets, it depends on how much you overthink it. To the average person they just see it as paying for a service, no different to getting a massage. People need massages, people work as masseurs, they're both doing something for each other and the masseur just sees it as a job and after giving thousands of massages they're not going to sit and think about you all day, they're just going to wait for their next client. So that was my weird analogy of saying you shouldn't feel guilty, its not like you're the only person using an escort. More men do it than they like to admit to. In fact women are starting to use male escorts too. Everyone has needs that needs to be taken care of.

But I wish you were most honest with yourself. Is it genuinely because you think you need more practice or is it simply because you are horny and getting tired of waiting? The latter is normal and understandable so I wouldn't judge you for it. But personally I don't think anyone needs practice before actually having sex with someone. My second boyfriend was a virgin and I obviously was not, didn't affect our sex life at all.
Just like with anything in life, you can become better at something with practice and the fun is in the learning. So when you do eventually get a girlfriend it won't matter if you haven't had much experience, u can practice with her and gradually get better at it.
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Loads of lads I know did it in Amsterdam.
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Most men have paid for sex, in some shape or form. I don't know many men who haven't.

If you've ever bought a girl a bunch of drinks at a club, you were trying to exchange goods for sex. Exact same can be said about taking a girl on dates to get laid.

If a man is after a trophy wife, he essentially wants a long term exclusive escort.

I've never paid for sex directly, but I have implicitly.

Regarding hiring escorts, I do know men who have done that.
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Yes.
I know quite a few guys who are in the habit of buying sex from: uk based adult sex workers, overseas escorts willing to sell sexual services and London sugarbabies selling sex.
Most of them are either: incapable of maintaining a stable monogomous relationship with another adult that involves more than the exchange of sex for something else, have blatantly unreasonable/obnoxious personalities accompanied by no desire to disguise it or have an overpowering appetite for specific extreme sexual activities that are viewing very negatively by most people within mainstream society.
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Yes.
I know quite a few guys who are in the habit of buying sex from: uk based adult sex workers, overseas escorts willing to sell sexual services and London sugarbabies selling sex.
Most of them are either: incapable of maintaining a stable monogomous relationship with another adult that involves more than the exchange of sex for something else, have blatantly unreasonable/obnoxious personalities accompanied by no desire to disguise it or have an overpowering appetite for specific extreme sexual activities that are viewing very negatively by most people within mainstream society.
i feel that paying for it is better than ending up as a 30 or 40 year old virgin
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one way i feel my feelings have changed towards this a lot, is because i heard that even famous people, celebrities, have been known to have sex with escorts or pay for sex, etc.
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Loads of lads I know did it in Amsterdam.
they have no regrets doing that? did it boost their self-esteem or make them feel better?
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they have no regrets doing that? did it boost their self-esteem or make them feel better?
Most of em think it was good craic and talk openly about it so I would guess no, yes, respectively
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Yes I did that once, well technically my mates paid for it. I had a lap dance at a lap dance club abroad years ago. We'd had a few beers and it was my birthday and the lads I was with paid for me as a birthday present. Otherwise I wouldn't have done it. Of course the other lads paid for themselves as well. tbh it was good and the girl was very attractive and nice to me but I haven't done anything like that since and would never do anything like that on my own, it would be way too weird, you have to be a pretty tough character to go to a place like that on your own.
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Yes I did that once, well technically my mates paid for it. I had a lap dance at a lap dance club abroad years ago. We'd had a few beers and it was my birthday and the lads I was with paid for me as a birthday present. Otherwise I wouldn't have done it. Of course the other lads paid for themselves as well. tbh it was good and the girl was very attractive and nice to me but I haven't done anything like that since and would never do anything like that on my own, it would be way too weird, you have to be a pretty tough character to go to a place like that on your own.
Lap dance, or 'private dance'?
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I officially got lap dance but there was a lot of physical contact.
I think others did more though.
tbh it's not something I would want to do again unless I was with a group of lads. There are so many weirdos at those places. you are insulated from them in a group but if you go on your own you're not.
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