so i used to identify as bi, then a lesbian, then bi again but now i’m not sure if i even feel sexual attraction. the thing is, i’ll go through periods where i feel attracted to people anf right now i’m in a period where i don’t. and i think maybe the idea of girls appeals more to me “aesthetically” because in my head they’re just prettier than guys. in the past i think i had repressed crushes on close girl friends who once i had an emotional connection with, i really liked for personality and looks. i was really close with my ex best friend and i think i was attracted to her physically and emotionally and i couldn’t see how toxic she was until i was out of the friendship. now i can still remember being attracted to her, and i remember that feeling, and i still miss her even though now i know she was horrible. as for guys, i am really drawn to those who have a good sense of humour and can also have a soft side too, but what if i’m not attracted to them physically? could this physical attraction develop after developing an emotional attraction even if i don’t see much of an appeal at the beginning?
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