Sleeping with lecturer?

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Siciliano
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Me and my lecturer have amazing chemistry and we’ve gone for drinks together too. She’s 30 and I’m 21. Others have said she’s not very attractive but I have a strong desire to sleep with her for some reason lol. Do you think it’s possible? And do you think it’s too risky? I still don’t know whether she sees me as just a friend, a student or someone she likes. Should prob mention she’s german. She’s also single too. We get a long really well and I think I’m starting to develop feelings for her
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It is not allowed and you know this.
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(Original post by Siciliano)
Me and my lecturer have amazing chemistry and we’ve gone for drinks together too. She’s 30 and I’m 21. Others have said she’s not very attractive but I have a strong desire to sleep with her for some reason lol. Do you think it’s possible? And do you think it’s too risky? I still don’t know whether she sees me as just a friend, a student or someone she likes. Should prob mention she’s german. She’s also single too. We get a long really well and I think I’m starting to develop feelings for her
It’s a no - why risk your future and possibly her career? If you are supposed to be together it can wait until after you have graduated. At this point in time , please don’t and if she is a good lecturer she will say the same.
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Steer well clear. Even if it's not technically illegal - and many universities have strict rules about student/lecturer relationships - it can make things very complicated and awkward to say the least. You'd have to disclose your relationship to the university to make sure no favouritism or manipulation arises regarding your assignments etc and there's always the potential for gossip and rumours to be spread. I'd perhaps wait to meet someone who isn't in a position of power over you.
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:facepalm:
Flatcest should be extended to lecturers.
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Me and my lecturer have amazing chemistry and we’ve gone for drinks together too.
Alone, or in company?
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No don’t risk your education :console:
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Wait till you finish the course.
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Go for it son
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This cant end well... just think of it this way, when it goes tits up (which it almost certainly wsill) how do you think your classes are going to be? Never mind its somewhat selfish to put her in a position where she can lose her career.
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do it mate. you only live once to fulfil your fantasies
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nah
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