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i've seen so many people (mainly men) that are openly homophobic and say that being with the same sex is wrong and bully gay people etc.

but when it comes to lesbian couples they seem to have no problem and find it "hot"? like it does not make sense to me
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Must be all that male privilege
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but when it comes to lesbian couples they seem to have no problem and find it "hot"?
Must be a really lovely feeling when men find you hot when you're having a moment with your gf
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i've seen so many people (mainly men) that are openly homophobic and say that being with the same sex is wrong and bully gay people etc.

but when it comes to lesbian couples they seem to have no problem and find it "hot"? like it does not make sense to me
Let me guess you're not gay or lesbian
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Must be a really lovely feeling when men find you hot when you're having a moment with your gf
Preferable to being killed for it.
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i've seen so many people (mainly men) that are openly homophobic and say that being with the same sex is wrong and bully gay people etc.

but when it comes to lesbian couples they seem to have no problem and find it "hot"? like it does not make sense to me
I suppose because a lot of people think girls are just experimenting, or need to meet the right guy ( completely false ) and have the wrong idea that those couples are straight but confused.

I feel like people believe that gay men go against the idea of "stereotypical masculinity" more, which makes it more unacceptable to them.

However, female gay couples get a lot of homophobia, I definitely wouldn't say it's easy for them
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wlw relationships are incredibly fetishised which is disgusting and probably the reason why these relationships are slightly less hated on than mlm relationships
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Preferable to being killed for it.
Um but homophobia is not limited to just guys like the OP is making it to be
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wlw relationships are incredibly fetishised which is disgusting and probably the reason why these relationships are slightly less hated on than mlm relationships
Yeah because some people's pervert tendencies can make them "less homophobic"
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Yeah because some people's pervert tendencies can make them "less homophobic"
I hate that term but that's honestly what it feels like

Or maybe they make up for it by their hatred for mlm relationships
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it's because everything is male centric for them, it's not about gayness per se it's about the fear of being emasculated. Wlw has no bearing on that to them since they can reduce it to visual objectification.
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Um but homophobia is not limited to just guys like the OP is making it to be
i did not say "only men". i also did not say men are more homophobic than women, i said that a lot men that are homophobic still find wlw hot.
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I hate that term but that's honestly what it feels like

Or maybe they make up for it by their hatred for mlm relationships
But honestly I won't say they're any less homophobic though, they'd love to "convert" those girls by offering to kiss or have sex with them and yeah I guess men who are really insecure about themselves will be extra homophobic towards guys
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But honestly I won't say they're any less homophobic though, they'd love to "convert" those girls by offering to kiss or have sex with them and yeah I guess men who are really insecure about themselves will be extra homophobic towards guys
That's gross
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i did not say "only men". i also did not say men are more homophobic than women, i said that a lot men that are homophobic still find wlw hot.
Ok fair point! my bad for interpreting that wrong
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That's gross
Very. They always try to change us
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Women are seen as sex objects so lesbian relationships are hot to straight men. Whereas gay men are seen as predatory.
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That's gross
im not homophobic coohie
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Tbh I would say some girls are "more homophobic" towards girls than guys. I have female friends who wish for "gay bestfriends" but when I came out to them as lesbian they were blatantly rude to me
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Very. They always try to change us
I've only recently come to terms with my sexuality and been in a few wlw relationships and thankfully haven't experienced the gross guys promising to "convert" me back yet.

Hopefully it'll never happen, I'm sorry if it has happened to you

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im not homophobic coohie
That's great No one should be homophobic
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