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Me and my boyfriend are in a 4 month relationship. He’s fingered me and I’ve gave him a hand job. He seems like he loves me but today he told me he’s not ready for sex. Is that a red flag ?
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no lol. i would date and decline sex.. doesn’t mean it is a sign of a red flag? people r ready at different times, don’t rush him lmao
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No. In fact it is the exact opposite. If he says he is waiting until he's ready then that shows he cares about you and this relationship.
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What would make you think him being honest and telling you that he’s not ready to have sex was a red flag???
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Me and my boyfriend are in a 4 month relationship. He’s fingered me and I’ve gave him a hand job. He seems like he loves me but today he told me he’s not ready for sex. Is that a red flag ?
Not at all! Different people feel ready at different times and that's totally okay. As long as you're both happy in the relationship and both want the same things out of the relationship then you should be fine
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If you or him are 15 or younger it's fine.

If you're both over 20 it doesn't make much sense. Unless you've only seen each other twice in 4 months?
Tell him to pull his finger out and get a move on.
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Why would that be a 'red flag'? Slightly odd in that guys are usually always up for it but thats it. The only red flag is you over thinking it this much really
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(Original post by Rhian23456)
Me and my boyfriend are in a 4 month relationship. He’s fingered me and I’ve gave him a hand job. He seems like he loves me but today he told me he’s not ready for sex. Is that a red flag ?
thats unreal I thought being a guy he would be dying to get inside you by now, I am female and I wouldn't have that patience
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Me and my boyfriend are in a 4 month relationship. He’s fingered me and I’ve gave him a hand job. He seems like he loves me but today he told me he’s not ready for sex. Is that a red flag ?
No. Guys do respect girls you know. He's probably waiting for you to make 1st move
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Not a red flag but certainly a tad bizarre, ask him what he’s waiting for if you’re up for it
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