I'm a part-time postgrad student in London (early 30s) but I've been single my entire life.
I'm really trying to change that - but it's hard. I'm quiet, especially in large groups. I don't have too many friends either (I wouldn't describe myself as a loner, but I am definitely very introverted), which means going places alone and I hate it.
I'm into girls younger than me, say early twenties, which I don't think is weird per se, but I do feel inappropriate trying to talk to younger girls (almost scared of coming across as a creep). Is this justified? I know some girls are into older guys...but where is a good place to meet them?
For example, I have tried to join society events at my uni. I'd like to go out to bars/nightclubs more, but again going alone is no fun.
I feel like I need a wing-girl to help me out here. Someone who can accompany places so I don't have to go alone, and also just help me become more confident in myself and around girls.
On the plus side, I'm successful careerwise and would consider a platonic sugar baby type thing.
Any advice? I haven't posted anonymously so feel free to dm