Guy im seeing says girl gave him STD

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Hi , so the guy im talking to didnt speak to me For ages so when i asked why he said he might have got a std from snogging a girl at party and was waiting for the results to come back. I think hes lying and mostly likely also slept around. But strangely i also suspect maybe he made Up the whole thing to avoid seeing me? I dunno wat to believe. What should i do? How would you feel about this if it were you?
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Calm down. It has only been 3 minutes, you don't need to bump it.
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Calm down. It has only been 3 minutes, you don't need to bump it.
Haha . Nah i advice thou
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what std is it? go and get tested if you’re that worried
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what std is it? go and get tested if you’re that worried
I dunno he didnt say. Deffo will hav to thou
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You cannot get an STD from kissing...
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When I found out that the guy I was dating was std infected, the first thing I did was get myself tested.
Then I dumped him.
Luckily my health was fine, the ex and the sex workers he was paying were all std infected.
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You cannot get an STD from kissing...
Exactly thats what i told him & thats why i know he’s lying. Most likely got a blow job or they slept together
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the only STD you can get from kissing are CMV, herpes and syphilis. He's probably been sleeping around
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You cannot get an STD from kissing...
It is possible for kissing to transmit cytomegalovirus, herpes and syphilis.
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It is possible for kissing to transmit cytomegalovirus, herpes and syphilis.
You forgot EBV. But I wouldn't call any of those other than syphilis (which is pretty uncommon in the UK) STDs specifically.
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You forgot EBV. But I wouldn't call any of those other than syphilis (which is pretty uncommon in the UK) STDs specifically.
Alas over the last three years cases of syphilis have been rising very rapidly in England, particularly within London and Surrey.
Far too many only being detected in the latent stage or after decease.
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Im honestly upset & hurt by it all. He never asks me out on any dates or nothing. I see him go out with his mates eatin out , cinmea ect but he never wants to do any of that with me.

i suspect im just a bootycall / friends with benefits to him. Which i dont want to be. I want to Be in a serious commitmened relationship & go out on dates once in a while. While carrying on like this lead to a good relationship?
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Alas over the last three years cases of syphilis have been rising very rapidly in England, particularly within London and Surrey.
Far too many only being detected in the latent stage or after decease.
I am aware of that, but It is still much less common than things like chlamydia etc.
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Im honestly upset & hurt by it all. He never asks me out on any dates or nothing. I see him go out with his mates eatin out , cinmea ect but he never wants to do any of that with me.

i suspect im just a bootycall / friends with benefits to him. Which i dont want to be. I want to Be in a serious commitmened relationship & go out on dates once in a while. While carrying on like this lead to a good relationship?
Trust your gut instinct and listen to what your common sense is telling you.
Life is too short to waste your valuable time and emotion on those that don't deserve any.
Plenty more single guys in the dating sea.
Good luck!
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Im honestly upset & hurt by it all. He never asks me out on any dates or nothing. I see him go out with his mates eatin out , cinmea ect but he never wants to do any of that with me.

i suspect im just a bootycall / friends with benefits to him. Which i dont want to be. I want to Be in a serious commitmened relationship & go out on dates once in a while. While carrying on like this lead to a good relationship?
No. He's just using you to sleep with. Block him, cry for a bit and then focus on yourself. Don't let a guy that thinks kissing can give him an STD (other than herpes and stuff) upset you, not worth it
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