Basically there was this guy I met a month ago. We have seen each other twice. (Back to back days). He seems really into me really quickly and I am too busy too stressed and not in the right place for a relationship. So when he asked what I thought of the relationship I told him that. Last week he messaged me again basically saying he couldn’t get over me.
Anyway my flatmates are really antisocial but are friends with him. I was meant to go out with two of my friends and this girl. Now this girl is best friends with the guy. So my flatmates are currently doing a 3 hour round trip to pick him up and bring him to campus to go out.
I really really don’t want to go out now. It’s partially because I was really stressed and had a minor breakdown and I don’t want to ruin their night. Plus the girl invited them but I always tag along cause they invite me but I worry the girl doesn’t like me.
We are also meant to be doing a scare maze thing tomorrow and it was a decent amount of money and I didn’t realise my flatmates had invite the guy and the girl and now I don’t think I’ll enjoy it very much.
I know that even if he is really nice I am going to feel uncomfortable because that’s what I’m like. Do I go out tonight even though I feel tired and a bit emotional to reduce the awkwardness so I enjoy tomorrow more (because I’ve been excited for like 3 weeks for it) or do I bail tonight like I said I might and just deal with it tomorrow??
Sorry for the very long message