Could I go to a bar on my own as a woman?

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Where I live is very, very , very safe. All my friends are away at the moment and I’m extremely bored and want to meet new people. Would I look like an alcoholic if i went to a bar on my own? Or would I look like a creep? Because usually old men who go to bars on their own look a bit sus…. Although I’m 22 so probably won’t have that effect. I’m just worried I’ll look strange but I’ve had dinner before on my own and no one bats an eye lid
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I would always recommend you have someone with you if you are going anywhere later at night no matter how save your area. I wouldn’t worry about “looking like a creep” because nobody really cares. But it’s up to you just make sure you get a taxi and maybe don’t walk home alone in the dark/cross roads when drunk.
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Are you the one asking if you could go to a bar on your own at the bar as a woman?
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Can I go to the bar on my own as a man?
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I woulnt really if you're wanting to get drunk. But if not then yeah. I wish I had the confidence to go somewhere and just approach people
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I woulnt really if you're wanting to get drunk. But if not then yeah. I wish I had the confidence to go somewhere and just approach people
Same girl
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Same girl
Maybe I'd have more friends by now. How does one socialise? Dunno
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Where I live is very, very , very safe. All my friends are away at the moment and I’m extremely bored and want to meet new people. Would I look like an alcoholic if i went to a bar on my own? Or would I look like a creep? Because usually old men who go to bars on their own look a bit sus…. Although I’m 22 so probably won’t have that effect. I’m just worried I’ll look strange but I’ve had dinner before on my own and no one bats an eye lid
Dinner is different though, everyone needs food.

Tbh whenever I've seen an old man sat on his own sipping away at booze I've presumed he was depressed or an alcoholic.

Never seen a young woman like that but I probably wouldn't assume the same as it doesn't fit the same stereotype.
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Maybe I'd have more friends by now. How does one socialise? Dunno
Idk I've always wondered that
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